WEBVTT 1 00:00:08.862 --> 00:00:09.757 - [Woman At Lectern] Good evening. 2 00:00:09.757 --> 00:00:10.701 - [Audience] Good evening. 3 00:00:10.701 --> 00:00:12.280 - Thank you. 4 00:00:12.280 --> 00:00:15.171 I am delighted to welcome you 5 00:00:15.171 --> 00:00:17.953 to our Annual Conference lecture 6 00:00:17.953 --> 00:00:21.575 and the 35th year of our Day-Garrett Awards. 7 00:00:21.575 --> 00:00:24.198 We're especially pleased to welcome 8 00:00:24.198 --> 00:00:27.669 our honored guest, Dr. Betty Morningstar, 9 00:00:27.669 --> 00:00:29.829 Dr. James Herbert Williams, 10 00:00:29.829 --> 00:00:32.371 their families and friends, 11 00:00:32.371 --> 00:00:34.391 our faculty field advisors, 12 00:00:34.391 --> 00:00:37.990 field agency representatives and supervisors. 13 00:00:37.990 --> 00:00:42.970 And our lecturer for this evening, Dr. J. Michael Bostwick. 14 00:00:43.764 --> 00:00:45.399 Annual Conference is one of our 15 00:00:45.399 --> 00:00:47.999 most important summer events. 16 00:00:47.999 --> 00:00:51.261 It is a time when we celebrate the achievements 17 00:00:51.261 --> 00:00:54.244 of our Day-Garrett Award recipients, 18 00:00:54.244 --> 00:00:56.160 and recognize those who have made 19 00:00:56.160 --> 00:00:59.620 significant contributions to the school. 20 00:00:59.620 --> 00:01:01.640 Also, it is a time when we're able to join 21 00:01:01.640 --> 00:01:04.182 with all of you to work together 22 00:01:04.182 --> 00:01:06.991 in advancing professional education. 23 00:01:07.943 --> 00:01:10.525 During our Annual Conference we explore ways 24 00:01:10.525 --> 00:01:14.844 of continuing our dialogue, as we affirm the excellence 25 00:01:14.844 --> 00:01:17.862 of Smith's clinical social work education 26 00:01:17.862 --> 00:01:20.578 and ensure its responsiveness 27 00:01:20.578 --> 00:01:22.505 to people throughout the years. 28 00:01:23.445 --> 00:01:26.118 We thank you for being here with us, 29 00:01:26.118 --> 00:01:29.516 for your commitment and for the many contributions 30 00:01:29.516 --> 00:01:34.444 you make to clinical social work education at Smith. 31 00:01:34.444 --> 00:01:36.539 We look forward to the year ahead 32 00:01:36.539 --> 00:01:40.335 with every expectation for much success. 33 00:01:41.137 --> 00:01:43.963 Before we move to the Day-Garrett Award, 34 00:01:43.963 --> 00:01:46.301 I want to thank Carolyn du Bois, 35 00:01:47.202 --> 00:01:48.844 Katelin Lewis-Kulin, 36 00:01:49.802 --> 00:01:51.920 the SSW staff, 37 00:01:52.948 --> 00:01:55.198 and everyone else who contributed 38 00:01:55.198 --> 00:01:58.252 to the wonderful work and job that was done 39 00:01:58.252 --> 00:02:00.214 in organizing the conference. 40 00:02:00.214 --> 00:02:04.869 So let's give Carolyn and Katelin and staff a hand. 41 00:02:04.869 --> 00:02:09.017 (applause) 42 00:02:11.804 --> 00:02:13.360 I'd like to also add the thanks 43 00:02:13.360 --> 00:02:16.019 for the workshop leaders and students. 44 00:02:16.019 --> 00:02:19.919 I know that there's a lot going on with continuing education 45 00:02:19.919 --> 00:02:24.296 and the experience of really looking at 46 00:02:24.296 --> 00:02:25.840 how we support our students 47 00:02:25.840 --> 00:02:28.359 in their field placement settings. 48 00:02:28.359 --> 00:02:31.705 So I'd like to give the workshop leaders 49 00:02:31.705 --> 00:02:34.880 and all the students who participated a hand as well. 50 00:02:34.880 --> 00:02:38.647 (applause) 51 00:02:40.650 --> 00:02:44.295 The Day-Garrett Award was established in 1978 52 00:02:44.295 --> 00:02:47.732 as a award of distinction to be awarded annually 53 00:02:47.732 --> 00:02:50.274 to one person or several persons 54 00:02:50.274 --> 00:02:53.095 who have been outstanding contributors 55 00:02:53.095 --> 00:02:55.196 to professional social work, 56 00:02:55.196 --> 00:02:57.074 and who have been significant members 57 00:02:57.074 --> 00:03:02.014 of the Smith College community educational experience. 58 00:03:02.763 --> 00:03:04.984 The award is given to those individuals 59 00:03:04.984 --> 00:03:08.363 who in the judgement of the committee have personified 60 00:03:08.363 --> 00:03:12.205 in their lives and service to their community, 61 00:03:12.205 --> 00:03:15.147 the high purpose of professional service 62 00:03:15.147 --> 00:03:19.187 for which the school has been renowned for 95 years. 63 00:03:19.187 --> 00:03:22.043 The recipients are chosen by an award committee, 64 00:03:22.043 --> 00:03:26.064 a faculty, field representatives, and trustees. 65 00:03:27.028 --> 00:03:28.670 The Day-Garrett Award honors 66 00:03:28.670 --> 00:03:31.235 the extraordinary service and achievement 67 00:03:31.235 --> 00:03:34.393 of Florence Day and Annette Garrett. 68 00:03:34.393 --> 00:03:35.990 Florence Day was director 69 00:03:35.990 --> 00:03:39.010 of the School for Social Work for 14 years, 70 00:03:39.010 --> 00:03:43.247 from 1942 to 1956. 71 00:03:43.247 --> 00:03:44.652 Under her directorship, 72 00:03:44.652 --> 00:03:47.810 the tradition of Monday night lectures began, 73 00:03:47.810 --> 00:03:52.810 and a program of advanced study was initiated in 1949. 74 00:03:52.917 --> 00:03:56.034 Students remember her fondly as a nurturer, 75 00:03:56.034 --> 00:03:59.145 a wise person, one who really listened. 76 00:04:00.074 --> 00:04:03.660 Annette Garrett was associate director of the school 77 00:04:03.660 --> 00:04:08.660 from 1935 to 1957, 22 years. 78 00:04:08.681 --> 00:04:10.539 She was an exceptional teacher, 79 00:04:10.539 --> 00:04:14.637 whose books became classics, which still endure. 80 00:04:14.637 --> 00:04:17.376 Her book on interviewing is in its fourth edition 81 00:04:17.376 --> 00:04:22.072 and has been translated into 20 foreign languages. 82 00:04:22.914 --> 00:04:24.632 To present this year's award, 83 00:04:24.632 --> 00:04:26.896 I am pleased to introduce to you 84 00:04:26.896 --> 00:04:30.041 Smith College Provost, Marilyn Schuster. 85 00:04:30.041 --> 00:04:33.925 (applause) 86 00:04:43.031 --> 00:04:46.550 - First I want to welcome everyone this evening and tell you 87 00:04:46.550 --> 00:04:50.611 that our new president, she's been on the job for 19 days, 88 00:04:51.553 --> 00:04:53.415 Kathy McCartney is very sorry 89 00:04:53.415 --> 00:04:55.098 she can't be here this evening. 90 00:04:55.098 --> 00:04:57.942 She's out raising money for the college. 91 00:04:57.942 --> 00:05:01.251 And also, I was told very strictly not to go off script, 92 00:05:01.251 --> 00:05:05.616 but I can't resist adding a sort of belated toast 93 00:05:05.616 --> 00:05:08.390 to the praise of Carolyn, 94 00:05:08.390 --> 00:05:10.677 that we heard earlier in the evening. 95 00:05:10.677 --> 00:05:12.434 And to just say that one of the many things 96 00:05:12.434 --> 00:05:15.998 that I've appreciated about her leadership at the school 97 00:05:15.998 --> 00:05:18.378 is that the School for Social Work 98 00:05:18.378 --> 00:05:21.013 and the college have grown closer together. 99 00:05:21.013 --> 00:05:23.915 We now have more programming together. 100 00:05:23.915 --> 00:05:27.038 And that the shared values 101 00:05:27.038 --> 00:05:29.220 of the school and the college 102 00:05:29.220 --> 00:05:32.935 are certainly something that we've shared for a long time, 103 00:05:32.935 --> 00:05:36.204 but that have deepened during her leadership. 104 00:05:37.556 --> 00:05:42.002 So now for the first of the Day-Garrett Awards. 105 00:05:42.002 --> 00:05:44.619 For distinguished service to the School for Social Work 106 00:05:44.619 --> 00:05:49.157 and the social work profession, Dr. James Herbert Williams. 107 00:05:50.458 --> 00:05:54.050 As a graduate of the Smith College School for Social Work, 108 00:05:54.050 --> 00:05:55.934 oh, yes. (audience laughs) 109 00:05:55.934 --> 00:06:00.309 (applause) 110 00:06:04.157 --> 00:06:06.603 You didn't know it was a hot seat, did you? 111 00:06:07.516 --> 00:06:10.370 As a graduate of the Smith College School for Social Work 112 00:06:10.370 --> 00:06:13.411 and an esteemed social work professional, 113 00:06:13.411 --> 00:06:15.570 with 30 plus years of experience 114 00:06:15.570 --> 00:06:18.264 as a scholar, educator, and leader 115 00:06:18.264 --> 00:06:20.748 in the field of clinical social work, 116 00:06:20.748 --> 00:06:24.370 you are a source of great pride for our school. 117 00:06:24.370 --> 00:06:26.263 You were one of the first members of your family 118 00:06:26.263 --> 00:06:29.467 to attend college, graduating with a BA in sociology 119 00:06:29.467 --> 00:06:33.529 from Grambling State University in 1972. 120 00:06:33.529 --> 00:06:36.331 You went on to earn your MSW here 121 00:06:36.331 --> 00:06:39.965 at the Smith College School for Social Work in 1975. 122 00:06:41.010 --> 00:06:45.493 An MPA from the University of Colorado in 1989. 123 00:06:45.493 --> 00:06:47.990 And in 1994 you became the only member 124 00:06:47.990 --> 00:06:50.253 of your family to earn a PhD 125 00:06:50.253 --> 00:06:52.192 when you completed your doctoral studies 126 00:06:52.192 --> 00:06:56.459 in social welfare at the University of Washington, Seattle. 127 00:06:57.230 --> 00:06:59.726 You are Dean of the Graduate School of Social Work 128 00:06:59.726 --> 00:07:01.990 at the University of Denver. 129 00:07:01.990 --> 00:07:06.772 And the first recipient of the Milton Morris Endowed Chair. 130 00:07:06.772 --> 00:07:09.512 You are the current president of the board of directors 131 00:07:09.512 --> 00:07:12.571 for the National Association of Deans and Directors 132 00:07:12.571 --> 00:07:14.763 of Schools of Social Work. 133 00:07:14.763 --> 00:07:19.186 And this year, you received the University of Washington 134 00:07:19.186 --> 00:07:23.826 2013 School of Social Work Distinguished Alumni Award. 135 00:07:24.729 --> 00:07:27.066 Your international commitment includes work 136 00:07:27.066 --> 00:07:30.804 on the United Nations-GSSW sponsored 137 00:07:30.804 --> 00:07:33.940 conflict-resolution initiative in Kenya, 138 00:07:33.940 --> 00:07:37.921 helping the members of various tribes to learn to peacefully 139 00:07:37.921 --> 00:07:41.754 address issues arising from their changing context. 140 00:07:42.595 --> 00:07:44.602 You have served on two commissions 141 00:07:44.602 --> 00:07:47.397 for the Council on Social Work Education, 142 00:07:47.397 --> 00:07:50.775 and as a member of the Society for Social Work and Research, 143 00:07:50.775 --> 00:07:52.993 Board of Directors. 144 00:07:52.993 --> 00:07:57.149 Prior to you appointment to the position of dean in 2007, 145 00:07:57.149 --> 00:08:00.097 you were the Foundation Professor of Youth and Diversity 146 00:08:00.097 --> 00:08:01.850 at the School of Social Work 147 00:08:01.850 --> 00:08:04.497 in the College of Public Programs 148 00:08:04.497 --> 00:08:07.109 at Arizona State University. 149 00:08:07.109 --> 00:08:09.489 Your funded research includes grants from the 150 00:08:09.489 --> 00:08:12.950 National Institutes of Child Health and Human Development, 151 00:08:12.950 --> 00:08:15.572 The National Institute of Mental Health, 152 00:08:15.572 --> 00:08:17.336 the Danforth Foundation, 153 00:08:17.336 --> 00:08:19.635 the National Institute of Diabetes 154 00:08:19.635 --> 00:08:21.772 and Digestive and Kidney Disease, 155 00:08:21.772 --> 00:08:24.592 and the Departments of Justice, Education, 156 00:08:24.592 --> 00:08:27.530 and Health and Human Services. 157 00:08:27.530 --> 00:08:28.938 Your scholarship has been published 158 00:08:28.938 --> 00:08:31.862 in prominent health and social science journals. 159 00:08:31.862 --> 00:08:35.253 Your research scholarship and community engagement 160 00:08:35.253 --> 00:08:39.037 have focused on health promotion and disease prevention, 161 00:08:39.037 --> 00:08:42.740 health disparities, economic sustainability, 162 00:08:42.740 --> 00:08:46.154 human security, conflict resolution, 163 00:08:46.154 --> 00:08:49.312 delinquency and violence, mental health services 164 00:08:49.312 --> 00:08:52.817 for African American children in urban schools, 165 00:08:52.817 --> 00:08:55.093 disproportionate minority confinement 166 00:08:55.093 --> 00:08:58.552 of African American youth in the criminal justice system, 167 00:08:58.552 --> 00:09:02.036 community strategies for positive youth development, 168 00:09:02.036 --> 00:09:05.936 and social issues of the African American community, 169 00:09:05.936 --> 00:09:09.732 as well as K to 12 academic performance, 170 00:09:09.732 --> 00:09:12.635 youth violence, delinquency prevention, 171 00:09:12.635 --> 00:09:17.385 adolescent substance abuse, race and gender differences, 172 00:09:17.385 --> 00:09:18.950 and mental heath service needs 173 00:09:18.950 --> 00:09:22.085 and utilization patterns in urban schools. 174 00:09:22.085 --> 00:09:24.825 Dr. Williams, your life's work has been shaped 175 00:09:24.825 --> 00:09:28.342 by a family legacy that values hard work 176 00:09:28.342 --> 00:09:30.525 and embodies resilience. 177 00:09:30.525 --> 00:09:34.019 Your contributions as a leader in research and scholarship 178 00:09:34.019 --> 00:09:38.280 have enriched not only the social work profession, 179 00:09:38.280 --> 00:09:40.067 but the world at large. 180 00:09:40.067 --> 00:09:43.306 You are a blessing to this school and to our profession. 181 00:09:43.306 --> 00:09:45.779 It is with great pleasure that we bestow 182 00:09:45.779 --> 00:09:48.867 upon you the Day-Garrett Award. 183 00:09:48.867 --> 00:09:53.867 (applause) 184 00:10:06.893 --> 00:10:08.201 - Thank you. 185 00:10:10.970 --> 00:10:12.293 Whoa. 186 00:10:12.293 --> 00:10:13.884 (audience laughs) 187 00:10:13.884 --> 00:10:15.787 It's always very weird and a little odd 188 00:10:15.787 --> 00:10:17.645 to sit there and have someone talk about you. 189 00:10:17.645 --> 00:10:20.537 It's almost like a out of body of experience of like, 190 00:10:20.537 --> 00:10:23.114 boy, whoever that person was they did a lot. 191 00:10:23.114 --> 00:10:25.004 (audience laughs) 192 00:10:27.404 --> 00:10:30.083 Thank you to the committee, to the selection committee. 193 00:10:30.083 --> 00:10:32.183 I'm very honored and very touched. 194 00:10:33.259 --> 00:10:35.694 I arrived on this campus in 1973 195 00:10:35.694 --> 00:10:40.243 as a 22-year-old kid directly out of undergraduate school. 196 00:10:40.243 --> 00:10:42.361 And my eyes was opened tremendously 197 00:10:42.361 --> 00:10:43.859 from all the wonderful knowledge 198 00:10:43.859 --> 00:10:45.656 that I learned while I was here. 199 00:10:46.691 --> 00:10:50.174 I've truly tried to tell people that education 200 00:10:50.174 --> 00:10:53.447 is your ticket to and opens your eyes to the world. 201 00:10:53.447 --> 00:10:56.837 I've had an opportunity after being educated here. 202 00:10:56.837 --> 00:11:00.592 It opened doors and opened my eyes to the world. 203 00:11:00.592 --> 00:11:04.573 And it's coming from a very humble beginnings, 204 00:11:04.573 --> 00:11:06.720 and always still thinking of myself 205 00:11:06.720 --> 00:11:09.692 in a very humble place, even today. 206 00:11:09.692 --> 00:11:11.523 It really is an honor. 207 00:11:11.523 --> 00:11:15.025 I really cherish my experience that I had here at Smith, 208 00:11:15.025 --> 00:11:17.078 and the education I got here at Smith. 209 00:11:18.309 --> 00:11:19.814 And some of the people. 210 00:11:19.814 --> 00:11:23.861 I think back today and I still think of the names 211 00:11:23.861 --> 00:11:27.517 of Helen Pinkus and the people that followed her, 212 00:11:27.517 --> 00:11:29.815 that was very instrumental, and who, 213 00:11:29.815 --> 00:11:32.137 shaping my ideas around sorta social work 214 00:11:32.137 --> 00:11:34.250 and the work that I'm doing. 215 00:11:34.250 --> 00:11:36.096 I'm very humbled and very honored. 216 00:11:36.096 --> 00:11:37.094 Thank you, Carolyn. 217 00:11:37.094 --> 00:11:37.738 Thank you to the committee 218 00:11:37.738 --> 00:11:41.026 for this wonderful, wonderful honor. 219 00:11:42.363 --> 00:11:43.668 I will cherish it always. 220 00:11:43.668 --> 00:11:45.095 Thank you very, very much. 221 00:11:45.095 --> 00:11:50.001 (applause) 222 00:11:58.235 --> 00:12:00.519 - Dr. Betty Morningstar. 223 00:12:03.159 --> 00:12:07.490 (applause) 224 00:12:13.080 --> 00:12:16.572 Scholar, educator, activist, 225 00:12:16.572 --> 00:12:19.532 philanthropist, and practitioner. 226 00:12:19.532 --> 00:12:21.075 You have been a leading advocate 227 00:12:21.075 --> 00:12:24.594 in the field of clinical social work and a quiet force 228 00:12:24.594 --> 00:12:26.555 in the lives of people on every corner 229 00:12:26.555 --> 00:12:30.514 of the globe for 30 years and counting. 230 00:12:30.514 --> 00:12:32.352 You are a stalwart supporter 231 00:12:32.352 --> 00:12:34.871 of social and economic justice, 232 00:12:34.871 --> 00:12:38.197 and unimpeded access to services for all. 233 00:12:39.236 --> 00:12:41.570 You earned a bachelor's degree in psychology 234 00:12:41.570 --> 00:12:44.280 from Smith College in 1971 235 00:12:44.280 --> 00:12:45.661 and continued your education 236 00:12:45.661 --> 00:12:49.689 in the Smith College School for Social Work, 237 00:12:49.689 --> 00:12:54.689 earning you MSW in 1977 and PhD in 1989. 238 00:12:55.738 --> 00:12:57.340 Your have worked as a psychotherapist 239 00:12:57.340 --> 00:13:02.261 in private practice in Brookline and Newton since 1983. 240 00:13:02.261 --> 00:13:03.714 You have taught at both 241 00:13:03.714 --> 00:13:05.978 the Simmons College School for Social Work, 242 00:13:05.978 --> 00:13:08.695 and the Smith College School for Social Work. 243 00:13:08.695 --> 00:13:11.620 And in addition to your social work degrees, 244 00:13:11.620 --> 00:13:13.454 you earned an MA in religion 245 00:13:13.454 --> 00:13:16.937 from Andover Newton Theological School. 246 00:13:16.937 --> 00:13:19.050 And you are a core faculty member 247 00:13:19.050 --> 00:13:21.093 for the Advanced Certificate program 248 00:13:21.093 --> 00:13:23.577 in Contemplative Clinical Practices, 249 00:13:23.577 --> 00:13:26.295 here at the Smith College School for Social Work. 250 00:13:27.403 --> 00:13:30.747 You have contributed to the social work profession 251 00:13:30.747 --> 00:13:35.160 in so many ways, including but not limited to, 252 00:13:35.160 --> 00:13:37.586 your contributions as a longstanding member 253 00:13:37.586 --> 00:13:41.287 and leader in the Academy of Certified Social Workers. 254 00:13:42.287 --> 00:13:45.321 You have worked to promote, develop, and protect 255 00:13:45.321 --> 00:13:48.038 the practice of social work and social workers. 256 00:13:48.038 --> 00:13:50.696 You're an exemplary leader, currently serving as 257 00:13:50.696 --> 00:13:54.585 President of the Massachusetts Chapter of NASW, 258 00:13:54.585 --> 00:13:57.917 and the Chair of the Social Work Reinvestment Task Force, 259 00:13:57.917 --> 00:13:59.843 and previously having served as the first 260 00:13:59.843 --> 00:14:03.427 Vice President of the Massachusetts Chapter, 261 00:14:03.427 --> 00:14:05.315 the Chair of the Awards Committee 262 00:14:05.315 --> 00:14:07.788 of the Massachusetts Chapter, 263 00:14:07.788 --> 00:14:09.903 as well as a member of the nominating committee 264 00:14:09.903 --> 00:14:13.098 of the National Office of NASW. 265 00:14:13.098 --> 00:14:15.074 In these many leadership roles, 266 00:14:15.074 --> 00:14:18.417 you have not only upheld, but also advanced, 267 00:14:18.417 --> 00:14:23.013 the strong social justice and advocacy mission of NASW. 268 00:14:24.001 --> 00:14:26.907 Your work with NASW enhances the professional growth 269 00:14:26.907 --> 00:14:29.125 and development of its members, 270 00:14:29.125 --> 00:14:33.026 helps to create and maintain professional standards, 271 00:14:33.026 --> 00:14:36.787 and advance sound social policies. 272 00:14:36.787 --> 00:14:39.538 Additionally, your professional contributions 273 00:14:39.538 --> 00:14:44.101 include numerous publications and presentations including 274 00:14:44.101 --> 00:14:49.101 Lesbian Parents: Understanding Developmental Pathways 1999. 275 00:14:49.104 --> 00:14:50.184 And J. Laird, 276 00:14:50.184 --> 00:14:53.659 Lesbians and Lesbian Families: Multiple Reflections. 277 00:14:55.745 --> 00:14:58.493 Stories that Transform: Narrative Approaches 278 00:14:58.493 --> 00:15:02.312 to Spiritually Oriented Clinical Practice, in 2010, 279 00:15:02.312 --> 00:15:07.195 in Volume 80 of the Smith College Studies in Social Work. 280 00:15:07.931 --> 00:15:10.473 You have presented on topics such as, 281 00:15:10.473 --> 00:15:13.550 the impact of violence and of the nuclear threat 282 00:15:13.550 --> 00:15:15.907 on psycho-social development, 283 00:15:15.907 --> 00:15:18.948 and adolescent and adult sexual identity development 284 00:15:18.948 --> 00:15:21.224 throughout Massachusetts and nationally 285 00:15:21.224 --> 00:15:24.578 at NASW conferences and symposia. 286 00:15:25.647 --> 00:15:29.053 You have served as chaplaincy intern 287 00:15:29.053 --> 00:15:33.673 at Hebrew Rehabilitation Hospital and SPARK Center, 288 00:15:33.673 --> 00:15:35.670 the Children's Medical and Mental Health Center 289 00:15:35.670 --> 00:15:38.004 of Boston Medical Center. 290 00:15:38.004 --> 00:15:40.012 And you have been actively involved 291 00:15:40.012 --> 00:15:42.427 with Keshet, a national organization 292 00:15:42.427 --> 00:15:46.571 that works for the full inclusion of LGBT Jews 293 00:15:46.571 --> 00:15:48.951 in all aspects of Jewish life, 294 00:15:48.951 --> 00:15:50.913 serving on the advisory committee 295 00:15:50.913 --> 00:15:53.130 and the development committee. 296 00:15:53.130 --> 00:15:55.092 You also serve on the advisory board 297 00:15:55.092 --> 00:15:57.692 of Creative Alternatives of New York, 298 00:15:57.692 --> 00:15:59.573 a drama therapy organization 299 00:15:59.573 --> 00:16:03.090 that serves clients who are dealing with complex trauma. 300 00:16:03.090 --> 00:16:04.229 And you are a member 301 00:16:04.229 --> 00:16:07.246 of President's Council at Smith College. 302 00:16:08.361 --> 00:16:11.198 A second generation Lion of Judah, 303 00:16:11.198 --> 00:16:14.738 you have carried on the philanthropic work of your family. 304 00:16:14.738 --> 00:16:16.654 Your generous financial support 305 00:16:16.654 --> 00:16:19.336 of the Smith College School for Social Work 306 00:16:19.336 --> 00:16:21.577 advances the mission of the school 307 00:16:21.577 --> 00:16:24.316 and helps support its position 308 00:16:24.316 --> 00:16:27.857 as a leader in academic and clinical excellence. 309 00:16:27.857 --> 00:16:31.177 Dr. Betty Morningstar, you've contributed greatly 310 00:16:31.177 --> 00:16:33.093 to the lives of many through your life 311 00:16:33.093 --> 00:16:36.575 of service, activism, and advocacy. 312 00:16:36.575 --> 00:16:38.897 In recognition of your service and dedication 313 00:16:38.897 --> 00:16:41.672 to the School for Social Work and the profession, 314 00:16:41.672 --> 00:16:45.271 we are proud to present you with a Day-Garrett Award. 315 00:16:45.271 --> 00:16:50.060 (applause) 316 00:17:02.707 --> 00:17:03.775 - Wow. 317 00:17:03.775 --> 00:17:05.934 For starters, I'm a little overwhelmed. 318 00:17:05.934 --> 00:17:10.316 But, thank you, Marilyn and Carolyn, 319 00:17:10.316 --> 00:17:14.356 and Caroline and all of the faculty 320 00:17:14.356 --> 00:17:16.777 and committee members that, 321 00:17:18.292 --> 00:17:21.223 that's not mine, I hope. (laughs) 322 00:17:22.669 --> 00:17:27.263 I really am so pleased and honored 323 00:17:27.263 --> 00:17:31.384 and grateful to be receiving this award 324 00:17:31.384 --> 00:17:33.904 from the School for Social Work. 325 00:17:33.904 --> 00:17:36.550 As you, I guess probably have gathered, 326 00:17:36.550 --> 00:17:38.280 I really kind of grew up here. 327 00:17:38.280 --> 00:17:42.169 I was an adolescent when I first sat in this very room 328 00:17:42.169 --> 00:17:44.618 for lectures as an undergraduate. 329 00:17:46.368 --> 00:17:49.603 So it's my home away from home. 330 00:17:49.603 --> 00:17:54.061 And I really feel 331 00:17:54.061 --> 00:17:56.604 a strong connection to the school, 332 00:17:56.604 --> 00:17:58.240 to the School for Social Work. 333 00:17:58.240 --> 00:17:59.703 It, as you also heard, 334 00:17:59.703 --> 00:18:01.886 I'm second generation Smith, 335 00:18:01.886 --> 00:18:03.678 so I really kind of started coming here 336 00:18:03.678 --> 00:18:05.176 when I was a little kid. 337 00:18:05.176 --> 00:18:09.076 And so, I'm just so grateful for all of the 338 00:18:09.076 --> 00:18:13.151 wonderful learning and support, 339 00:18:13.151 --> 00:18:17.992 and incredible intellectual stimulation 340 00:18:17.992 --> 00:18:21.276 from both the college and graduate school years. 341 00:18:22.160 --> 00:18:23.626 I like to think of my time 342 00:18:23.626 --> 00:18:26.018 in the masters and doctoral programs 343 00:18:26.018 --> 00:18:29.825 as a kind of funny holding environment. 344 00:18:29.825 --> 00:18:31.857 Some of you might know that phrase 345 00:18:31.857 --> 00:18:34.538 from their social work education. 346 00:18:35.576 --> 00:18:37.922 At the same time, the gentle push 347 00:18:37.922 --> 00:18:40.024 to get out there and actually do the work, 348 00:18:40.024 --> 00:18:42.763 so I've had all of that here. 349 00:18:42.763 --> 00:18:46.803 And I am incredibly grateful 350 00:18:46.803 --> 00:18:48.881 for the many opportunities I've had 351 00:18:48.881 --> 00:18:51.958 to serve in the social work community. 352 00:18:51.958 --> 00:18:54.744 All of which got started here 353 00:18:54.744 --> 00:18:57.425 at this school, in this room, 354 00:18:57.425 --> 00:18:59.120 that brings back many memories. 355 00:18:59.120 --> 00:19:02.603 I won't even begin to tell you any of them, 356 00:19:02.603 --> 00:19:04.296 or we'd be here all night. 357 00:19:05.365 --> 00:19:08.261 So just, thank you. 358 00:19:08.261 --> 00:19:09.944 That's the only thing I can figure out 359 00:19:09.944 --> 00:19:12.904 about how to say how thankful I am. 360 00:19:12.904 --> 00:19:16.746 And I do want to just thank my families members, 361 00:19:16.746 --> 00:19:20.323 my entourage who has joined me here tonight. 362 00:19:20.323 --> 00:19:22.742 My wife, Jeanette Kruger. 363 00:19:22.742 --> 00:19:24.809 My son, Will Morningstar. 364 00:19:24.809 --> 00:19:27.525 My sister-in-law, Faith Morningstar. 365 00:19:27.525 --> 00:19:29.649 And my dear friend, Harriet Fink. 366 00:19:29.649 --> 00:19:33.492 And having said that, 367 00:19:33.492 --> 00:19:37.288 enjoy the lecture and thank you for being here. 368 00:19:37.288 --> 00:19:41.943 (applause) 369 00:19:48.345 --> 00:19:52.013 - And now I will turn the lectern over to Carolyn du Bois, 370 00:19:52.013 --> 00:19:55.280 or du-Bwah, as we say in my former life, 371 00:19:56.143 --> 00:19:59.503 to introduce Dr. J. Michael Bostwick. 372 00:20:10.727 --> 00:20:12.219 - All right, greetings all. 373 00:20:13.107 --> 00:20:14.327 And thank you once again. 374 00:20:14.327 --> 00:20:16.823 Let me just add my thanks to the field crew 375 00:20:16.823 --> 00:20:19.760 and to our field faculty supervisors 376 00:20:19.760 --> 00:20:23.742 and directors of training who are here this evening. 377 00:20:23.742 --> 00:20:25.820 It is my pleasure this evening 378 00:20:25.820 --> 00:20:29.523 to introduce to you Dr. J. Michael Bostwick, 379 00:20:29.523 --> 00:20:32.088 who will be presenting the Day-Garrett Award lecture, 380 00:20:32.088 --> 00:20:37.088 which is entitled: Sex, Gender, Intersexuality 381 00:20:37.382 --> 00:20:39.683 in the Olympics and the Real World. 382 00:20:40.613 --> 00:20:42.347 Let me tell you a bit about Dr. Bostwick. 383 00:20:42.347 --> 00:20:44.831 The resume was 44 pages long. 384 00:20:44.831 --> 00:20:45.566 (audience chatters) 385 00:20:45.566 --> 00:20:48.793 And there was no fluff in it at all. 386 00:20:48.793 --> 00:20:51.185 Dr. Bostwick received his bachelor's degree 387 00:20:51.185 --> 00:20:54.110 in art history from Yale University. 388 00:20:54.110 --> 00:20:56.165 Then got another bachelor's degree 389 00:20:56.165 --> 00:20:59.427 in zoology from the University of Hawaii. 390 00:20:59.427 --> 00:21:00.785 Then went on to med school. 391 00:21:00.785 --> 00:21:04.489 Completed a medical degree at Brown University. 392 00:21:04.489 --> 00:21:05.870 And then went on to complete 393 00:21:05.870 --> 00:21:08.703 what is really quite an extraordinarily, I think, 394 00:21:08.703 --> 00:21:11.871 impressive course of training which included 395 00:21:11.871 --> 00:21:15.366 an internship and junior residency in pediatrics 396 00:21:15.366 --> 00:21:17.502 at Mass General Hospital. 397 00:21:17.502 --> 00:21:21.206 A psychiatry residency at Cambridge Hospital where he then 398 00:21:21.206 --> 00:21:24.908 was named Chief Resident of Outpatient Psychiatry. 399 00:21:24.908 --> 00:21:27.648 Then completed a fellowship in consulting psychiatry 400 00:21:27.648 --> 00:21:29.592 at Brigham and Women's Hospital. 401 00:21:29.592 --> 00:21:30.788 And in his spare time went on 402 00:21:30.788 --> 00:21:32.471 and completed psychoanalytic training 403 00:21:32.471 --> 00:21:35.385 at the Boston Psychoanalytic Society. 404 00:21:35.385 --> 00:21:37.510 It's really quite remarkable. 405 00:21:37.510 --> 00:21:40.424 Since 1996, Dr. Bostwick has served 406 00:21:40.424 --> 00:21:43.163 on the faculty of the Department of Psychiatry 407 00:21:43.163 --> 00:21:46.182 at the University of Texas in San Antonio. 408 00:21:46.182 --> 00:21:47.330 And at the same time, 409 00:21:47.330 --> 00:21:50.209 as consulting professor of psychiatry 410 00:21:50.209 --> 00:21:52.845 at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota, 411 00:21:52.845 --> 00:21:55.446 where he then became director of the medical school 412 00:21:55.446 --> 00:21:58.661 of the education program in psychiatry and now serves as the 413 00:21:58.661 --> 00:22:02.775 Assistant Dean of the Mayo Clinic School of Medicine. 414 00:22:03.665 --> 00:22:06.668 Also, somehow in all of this, he has 15 years service 415 00:22:06.668 --> 00:22:09.664 in active and reserve duty in the Air Force, 416 00:22:09.664 --> 00:22:11.962 where he holds the rank of Lieutenant Colonel. 417 00:22:13.387 --> 00:22:15.675 And maintains numerous academic 418 00:22:15.675 --> 00:22:17.683 and professional affiliations, 419 00:22:17.683 --> 00:22:21.515 including membership in the American Board of Psychiatry, 420 00:22:21.515 --> 00:22:24.411 the Academy of Suicidality, 421 00:22:24.411 --> 00:22:27.045 the Academy of Psychosomatic Medicine. 422 00:22:27.045 --> 00:22:29.889 He is board certified in psychiatry, 423 00:22:29.889 --> 00:22:32.570 geriatric psychiatry, addiction psychiatry, 424 00:22:32.570 --> 00:22:34.544 psychosomatic psychiatry and is a 425 00:22:34.544 --> 00:22:38.608 Diplomate of the National Board of Medical Examiners. 426 00:22:38.608 --> 00:22:40.376 He's a prolific writer. 427 00:22:40.376 --> 00:22:43.685 He's an author of 91 articles, I counted them. 428 00:22:43.685 --> 00:22:48.352 A book on psychosomatic medicine and 25 book chapters. 429 00:22:48.352 --> 00:22:50.419 He's a reviewer, an editor, 430 00:22:50.419 --> 00:22:53.983 or a editorial board member of numerous journals. 431 00:22:53.983 --> 00:22:56.944 Clearly a gifted, and oftentimes recognized, 432 00:22:56.944 --> 00:23:00.600 with honors for his teaching work, 433 00:23:00.600 --> 00:23:04.605 his mentorship and his consultation to psychiatrists. 434 00:23:04.605 --> 00:23:06.637 And he's a highly sought after speaker, 435 00:23:06.637 --> 00:23:09.098 both internationally and nationally. 436 00:23:09.098 --> 00:23:11.605 He's presented across the world on topics 437 00:23:11.605 --> 00:23:16.540 which have included suicidality, sex and gender, 438 00:23:16.540 --> 00:23:21.540 depression, empathy, hopelessness and despair, 439 00:23:21.559 --> 00:23:23.271 and schizophrenia. 440 00:23:23.271 --> 00:23:25.384 With topics, and I just have to give you 441 00:23:25.384 --> 00:23:28.123 some of the highlights because I was amused. 442 00:23:28.123 --> 00:23:31.791 Some of the topics of these presentations go as follows: 443 00:23:31.791 --> 00:23:33.603 Trampled By a Zebra. 444 00:23:33.603 --> 00:23:36.551 Which has to do with rare diagnoses. 445 00:23:36.551 --> 00:23:39.105 Hiccups Were Not A State of Mind. 446 00:23:39.105 --> 00:23:41.346 Bugs Are Not Us. 447 00:23:41.346 --> 00:23:43.551 My Brain Is Catching Up To My Brain. 448 00:23:43.551 --> 00:23:44.701 And my personal favorite, 449 00:23:44.701 --> 00:23:49.701 which I imagine earns you the love of your colleagues, 450 00:23:49.750 --> 00:23:53.516 Physicianhood As Potential Personality Disorder. 451 00:23:53.516 --> 00:23:55.815 (audience laughs) 452 00:23:55.815 --> 00:23:58.392 He's an extraordinarily gifted teacher, 453 00:23:58.392 --> 00:24:00.435 writer, researcher, and clinician. 454 00:24:00.435 --> 00:24:02.931 Please join me in welcoming Dr. J. Michael Bostwick. 455 00:24:02.931 --> 00:24:07.569 (applause) 456 00:24:13.942 --> 00:24:15.544 - Let's see. 457 00:24:15.544 --> 00:24:18.307 If I'm so accomplished, why am I so anxious? 458 00:24:18.307 --> 00:24:19.700 (audience laughs) 459 00:24:19.700 --> 00:24:22.949 Er, the first thing is they hid the mouse. 460 00:24:23.756 --> 00:24:24.615 Okay. 461 00:24:24.615 --> 00:24:27.798 I think I'm anxious because the topic is anxiety provoking. 462 00:24:29.537 --> 00:24:31.647 I find this such, anything related 463 00:24:31.647 --> 00:24:35.000 to sexuality and gender and sex, 464 00:24:35.000 --> 00:24:36.962 to be just full of opportunities 465 00:24:36.962 --> 00:24:39.921 to trip, to screw up, to offend. 466 00:24:40.714 --> 00:24:42.945 I hope to be intriguing and entertaining 467 00:24:42.945 --> 00:24:46.265 and provocative and not offensive (laughs), 468 00:24:46.265 --> 00:24:47.598 but it's a challenge because people 469 00:24:47.598 --> 00:24:50.941 have very strong feelings about these topics. 470 00:24:50.941 --> 00:24:54.388 In any case, I have a disclaimer. 471 00:24:55.276 --> 00:24:57.523 Number one, I'm a Euro-American. 472 00:24:57.523 --> 00:24:59.014 Now let me explain that. 473 00:24:59.014 --> 00:25:01.417 Caucasians, I actually know a couple of Caucasians. 474 00:25:01.417 --> 00:25:02.577 One is from Armenia, 475 00:25:02.577 --> 00:25:07.160 and the other is from Uzbekistan. 476 00:25:07.160 --> 00:25:08.691 And these are Caucasian peoples, 477 00:25:08.691 --> 00:25:10.223 they are not European peoples, 478 00:25:10.223 --> 00:25:11.284 and they have made it very clear to me 479 00:25:11.284 --> 00:25:13.492 that I am not them. 480 00:25:13.492 --> 00:25:15.420 So I'm a Euro-American. 481 00:25:15.420 --> 00:25:18.044 I'm also male which is a dangerous thing 482 00:25:18.044 --> 00:25:20.272 to be sometimes at Smith College, 483 00:25:20.272 --> 00:25:22.315 as well as other places. (laughter) 484 00:25:22.315 --> 00:25:23.731 Although I have to warn you 485 00:25:23.731 --> 00:25:26.021 that you may only be perceiving me as a male. 486 00:25:26.021 --> 00:25:29.852 Underneath this appearance I could be something else. 487 00:25:29.852 --> 00:25:31.128 And thirdly I'm a psychiatrist, 488 00:25:31.128 --> 00:25:34.534 which is by definition a very, very scary thing. 489 00:25:35.944 --> 00:25:38.066 Actually, I'm not a trained analyst, 490 00:25:38.066 --> 00:25:39.251 but I have been analyzed, 491 00:25:39.251 --> 00:25:42.734 so I've been terrified by an analyst, but I am not one. 492 00:25:42.734 --> 00:25:44.451 (audience laughs) 493 00:25:44.451 --> 00:25:45.450 So with those disclaimers, 494 00:25:45.450 --> 00:25:49.613 we'll proceed to my own experience. 495 00:25:49.613 --> 00:25:52.444 This is a bracelet that I wear. 496 00:25:52.444 --> 00:25:54.903 That I've worn since I was 17. 497 00:25:54.903 --> 00:25:57.574 And much to my surprise, 498 00:25:57.574 --> 00:25:59.581 I learned when I was a college student, 499 00:25:59.581 --> 00:26:02.064 from one of my classmates, that I was gay. 500 00:26:02.064 --> 00:26:05.222 Which was very interesting to be told that I was gay. 501 00:26:05.222 --> 00:26:06.710 I thought that was something that I got 502 00:26:06.710 --> 00:26:09.634 to tell other people that I was or wasn't, 503 00:26:09.634 --> 00:26:10.914 but I learned that it was simply 504 00:26:10.914 --> 00:26:14.442 because I wore this signifier of gayness, a bracelet. 505 00:26:14.442 --> 00:26:15.534 Did you all know that? 506 00:26:15.534 --> 00:26:16.194 (audience chatter) 507 00:26:16.194 --> 00:26:17.122 That's changed a little bit, 508 00:26:17.122 --> 00:26:19.305 but in the 1970s in New Haven, 509 00:26:19.305 --> 00:26:20.776 wearing a bracelet meant that you were gay. 510 00:26:20.776 --> 00:26:23.761 Apparently I was the last to know. 511 00:26:25.304 --> 00:26:26.305 All right. 512 00:26:27.223 --> 00:26:29.971 So let's get started, if we haven't already. 513 00:26:31.005 --> 00:26:34.041 On this topic intersexuality and sexuality and gender, 514 00:26:34.041 --> 00:26:37.296 I actually got my start in the U.S. Air Force. 515 00:26:37.296 --> 00:26:40.624 Now I went to Brown Medical School and I had no money. 516 00:26:41.774 --> 00:26:42.493 Unfortunately this was the year 517 00:26:42.493 --> 00:26:44.954 that Ronald Reagan had killed the 518 00:26:44.954 --> 00:26:47.765 National Public Health Service Corps, 519 00:26:47.765 --> 00:26:48.786 because I would have done that. 520 00:26:48.786 --> 00:26:49.713 But I ended up in the Air Force, 521 00:26:49.713 --> 00:26:51.501 which was especially ironic because 522 00:26:51.501 --> 00:26:53.081 I was raised in an Air Force family, 523 00:26:53.081 --> 00:26:56.101 and I have a very difficult relationship with my father. 524 00:26:56.101 --> 00:26:57.749 But there I was in the Air Force. 525 00:26:57.749 --> 00:27:00.628 And if you want to learn about marginalized people 526 00:27:00.628 --> 00:27:03.229 and people who are challenged by the culture they're in, 527 00:27:03.229 --> 00:27:05.689 a great place to do it is in an organization 528 00:27:05.689 --> 00:27:09.173 that has strong boundaries and challenges people 529 00:27:09.173 --> 00:27:12.657 who are not meeting their expectations. 530 00:27:12.657 --> 00:27:16.696 So this was a patient who I first met as a man. 531 00:27:16.696 --> 00:27:18.760 And I was given the task of proving 532 00:27:18.760 --> 00:27:21.594 that this person was crazy. 533 00:27:21.594 --> 00:27:25.683 Because they, 19 years into their career in the Air Force, 534 00:27:25.683 --> 00:27:29.699 had been discovered to be working 535 00:27:31.119 --> 00:27:33.397 at the base as a man, going home, 536 00:27:33.397 --> 00:27:36.184 and becoming a woman and becoming 537 00:27:36.184 --> 00:27:39.645 the vice president of their child's PTA as a woman. 538 00:27:39.645 --> 00:27:44.289 And that boundary transgression was so unacceptable 539 00:27:44.289 --> 00:27:48.633 that another military person called their commander 540 00:27:48.633 --> 00:27:51.300 and they ended up being sent to mental health 541 00:27:51.300 --> 00:27:53.692 to be proven that they were crazy. 542 00:27:53.692 --> 00:27:55.688 Well, I tried really hard, (laughs) 543 00:27:55.688 --> 00:27:58.151 but this person was not crazy in the slightest. 544 00:27:58.151 --> 00:27:59.984 And in fact, I believed may have managed 545 00:27:59.984 --> 00:28:01.655 to be the first person who was allowed 546 00:28:01.655 --> 00:28:04.140 to retire as a transgendered person 547 00:28:04.140 --> 00:28:06.275 from the military with full benefits. 548 00:28:06.275 --> 00:28:07.723 And largely that was because 549 00:28:07.723 --> 00:28:09.310 they had the goods on the military 550 00:28:09.310 --> 00:28:11.378 and threatened to go to the New York Times. 551 00:28:11.378 --> 00:28:13.026 Which has happened on numerous other occasions 552 00:28:13.026 --> 00:28:14.698 involving people in the military 553 00:28:14.698 --> 00:28:17.158 around issues of sexuality and gender. 554 00:28:17.158 --> 00:28:19.178 In any case, that's where I got my start. 555 00:28:19.178 --> 00:28:21.478 And what I know is not the result of my training 556 00:28:21.478 --> 00:28:23.789 because there was none of that in my training 557 00:28:23.789 --> 00:28:25.545 in Boston in the '70s. 558 00:28:26.777 --> 00:28:28.595 It's what I've learned along the way taking care 559 00:28:28.595 --> 00:28:30.731 of several dozen folks who were trying to sort 560 00:28:30.731 --> 00:28:34.027 these issues out for themselves. 561 00:28:34.027 --> 00:28:36.095 Now, Caster Semenya. 562 00:28:36.095 --> 00:28:38.401 How many of you know who this person is? 563 00:28:38.401 --> 00:28:39.397 Okay. 564 00:28:39.397 --> 00:28:41.349 I'll tell you more about the story later, 565 00:28:41.349 --> 00:28:44.443 but suffice it to say that Caster Semenya 566 00:28:46.029 --> 00:28:48.144 can really challenge our assumptions 567 00:28:48.144 --> 00:28:51.397 or our ideas about what 568 00:28:51.397 --> 00:28:53.534 a woman or a man should look like. 569 00:28:53.534 --> 00:28:56.298 And the story, I'll go into it in detail later, 570 00:28:56.298 --> 00:28:59.409 but basically this is a person 571 00:28:59.409 --> 00:29:02.961 who is likely intersexual, although no one knows for sure, 572 00:29:02.961 --> 00:29:05.827 except for a very select committee 573 00:29:05.827 --> 00:29:09.798 that decided whether or not she could compete as a woman. 574 00:29:10.859 --> 00:29:12.404 So the objectives of my talk are to give 575 00:29:12.404 --> 00:29:15.822 definitions of sex, gender identify, and gender behavior. 576 00:29:15.822 --> 00:29:18.562 To explore the differential of intersexual diagnoses, 577 00:29:18.562 --> 00:29:20.325 of which there are many. 578 00:29:20.325 --> 00:29:24.158 So it means really that individuals with these diagnoses 579 00:29:24.158 --> 00:29:27.313 have very different experiences and very different lives 580 00:29:27.313 --> 00:29:30.149 that we need to take into consideration. 581 00:29:30.149 --> 00:29:32.817 How many of you have read Middlesex by Eugenides? 582 00:29:32.817 --> 00:29:34.169 Okay, so you know something about a person 583 00:29:34.169 --> 00:29:37.025 who thinks they're a girl and they turn into a boy 584 00:29:37.025 --> 00:29:40.833 or something when they reach adolescence. 585 00:29:40.833 --> 00:29:41.860 I'm gonna introduce the concept 586 00:29:41.860 --> 00:29:43.715 of fetal brain masculinization. 587 00:29:43.715 --> 00:29:47.600 Now, I was warned to not be a (stammers), 588 00:29:47.600 --> 00:29:48.721 there's a term, I don't have it quite right, 589 00:29:48.721 --> 00:29:49.677 biologist isn't the term, 590 00:29:49.677 --> 00:29:51.489 but I was warned to be careful about 591 00:29:51.489 --> 00:29:53.594 being too reductionist about biology, 592 00:29:53.594 --> 00:29:55.337 but I think it's very freeing actually 593 00:29:55.337 --> 00:29:56.695 to have people finally looking at brains 594 00:29:56.695 --> 00:29:58.666 and seeing that there are, in fact, 595 00:29:58.666 --> 00:30:01.945 neuroanatomical and neurobiological correlates 596 00:30:03.037 --> 00:30:07.059 to sexuality, to gender, to gender expression, et cetera. 597 00:30:07.059 --> 00:30:07.779 And then I'm gonna talk about 598 00:30:07.779 --> 00:30:09.945 a case in the news, Caster Semenya. 599 00:30:09.945 --> 00:30:12.228 And finally, show some video clips of my own patient, 600 00:30:12.228 --> 00:30:14.200 and tell you a little about her 601 00:30:14.200 --> 00:30:15.920 and how she came to see me 602 00:30:15.920 --> 00:30:18.645 and how as a psychiatrist it was the first and only time 603 00:30:18.645 --> 00:30:21.158 I've ever ordered chromosomes on a patient. 604 00:30:21.158 --> 00:30:22.294 Not something you typically do 605 00:30:22.294 --> 00:30:24.385 in a traditional psychoanalytic training, 606 00:30:24.385 --> 00:30:24.966 "Tell me about your mother, 607 00:30:24.966 --> 00:30:26.693 "and can I check your chromosomes?" (laughs) 608 00:30:26.693 --> 00:30:29.457 Not what you usually do. 609 00:30:29.457 --> 00:30:31.355 And then we'll have a discussion. 610 00:30:32.521 --> 00:30:33.550 How do we define sex? 611 00:30:33.550 --> 00:30:35.966 It's really, really challenging. 612 00:30:35.966 --> 00:30:38.890 There are objective, scientific approaches. 613 00:30:38.890 --> 00:30:43.257 But there are contributions from anatomy. 614 00:30:43.257 --> 00:30:45.438 Contributions from physiology, 615 00:30:45.438 --> 00:30:50.082 and genetics, endocrinology, psychology. 616 00:30:50.082 --> 00:30:51.850 There's no absolute definition. 617 00:30:51.850 --> 00:30:54.029 And one of the things that kind of intrigues me 618 00:30:54.029 --> 00:30:57.561 is that even the scientific literature seems to think 619 00:30:57.561 --> 00:30:59.673 that if you show up and say you're a man or a woman, 620 00:30:59.673 --> 00:31:01.761 and you'll be studied as a man or a woman. 621 00:31:01.761 --> 00:31:03.830 Now I would contend that since we don't 622 00:31:03.830 --> 00:31:05.641 routinely check chromosomes on people, 623 00:31:05.641 --> 00:31:08.122 and we don't routinely study 624 00:31:09.473 --> 00:31:11.502 much of that what they tell themselves to be, 625 00:31:11.502 --> 00:31:14.034 our literature on men and women is probably flawed 626 00:31:14.034 --> 00:31:17.053 because it includes all kinds of surprises. 627 00:31:17.053 --> 00:31:19.602 And that'll be my patient when I tell you about her. 628 00:31:20.790 --> 00:31:23.372 Gender is a subjective thing. 629 00:31:23.372 --> 00:31:25.111 It's fluid, it's a personal thing. 630 00:31:25.111 --> 00:31:27.677 It's also an interpersonal thing. 631 00:31:27.677 --> 00:31:29.458 No matter how you express your gender, 632 00:31:29.458 --> 00:31:31.526 you have to confront everybody else around you 633 00:31:31.526 --> 00:31:32.918 who is interpreting your gender, 634 00:31:32.918 --> 00:31:35.009 expressing their own gender and challenging your gender, 635 00:31:35.009 --> 00:31:36.169 or agreeing with your gender. 636 00:31:36.169 --> 00:31:39.861 It's quite a fluid place. 637 00:31:39.861 --> 00:31:42.577 It's a bio, psycho, socio, cultural construction. 638 00:31:42.577 --> 00:31:44.805 It has elements of all of these things. 639 00:31:44.805 --> 00:31:46.479 And they all come together and collide together 640 00:31:46.479 --> 00:31:50.382 in ways that can be quite challenging. 641 00:31:50.382 --> 00:31:52.794 There is a core gender identity, usually. 642 00:31:52.794 --> 00:31:54.746 People know what their core gender identity is. 643 00:31:54.746 --> 00:31:56.882 And typically it's either male or female, 644 00:31:56.882 --> 00:31:59.422 although there are folks who are somewhere in between. 645 00:32:00.274 --> 00:32:02.028 It's this personal sense of maleness, 646 00:32:02.028 --> 00:32:04.048 femaleness or in betweenness. 647 00:32:04.048 --> 00:32:06.855 And regardless of how you present yourself 648 00:32:06.855 --> 00:32:10.108 or how you behave, very often you know 649 00:32:10.108 --> 00:32:12.732 who you are at core in this way. 650 00:32:12.732 --> 00:32:13.892 And you may get into trouble 651 00:32:13.892 --> 00:32:15.515 when people who are talking to you about that 652 00:32:15.515 --> 00:32:17.863 don't agree with your own sense of who you are, 653 00:32:17.863 --> 00:32:19.240 which is really kind of offensive actually 654 00:32:19.240 --> 00:32:21.869 to be told that you're not who you think you are 655 00:32:21.869 --> 00:32:24.174 because somebody else knows better. 656 00:32:24.174 --> 00:32:27.481 There's been a lot of bad work done based on that premise. 657 00:32:28.518 --> 00:32:31.295 For most people it's well established by age three. 658 00:32:31.295 --> 00:32:33.939 A child of three, no matter how they're behaving or acting, 659 00:32:33.939 --> 00:32:35.379 can typically tell you whether they think 660 00:32:35.379 --> 00:32:38.026 of themselves as a boy or a girl. 661 00:32:38.026 --> 00:32:40.865 And then the gender behavior issue 662 00:32:40.865 --> 00:32:43.048 is really a separate issue, 663 00:32:43.048 --> 00:32:47.436 and one that needs to be taken into consideration as well. 664 00:32:47.436 --> 00:32:51.940 Now, in many cultures, ours included, 665 00:32:51.940 --> 00:32:53.263 there are ways that we expect 666 00:32:53.263 --> 00:32:55.679 boys and girls to typically act, 667 00:32:55.679 --> 00:33:00.115 ways that they should act we impose upon them. 668 00:33:00.115 --> 00:33:03.040 One of my favorites is a cartoon. 669 00:33:03.040 --> 00:33:05.829 This is a cartoon by the author of Maus. 670 00:33:05.829 --> 00:33:10.829 You know, the cartoon strip about the concentration camps. 671 00:33:11.153 --> 00:33:13.859 And he had a child, 672 00:33:13.859 --> 00:33:17.163 and was trying very hard to raise his girl 673 00:33:17.163 --> 00:33:21.295 in a liberal, gender-free way. 674 00:33:21.295 --> 00:33:24.706 So he did a comic strip where he showed her 675 00:33:24.706 --> 00:33:28.958 with a fire truck that she had wrapped up in a blanket 676 00:33:28.958 --> 00:33:31.370 and was rocking like this, like a baby. 677 00:33:31.370 --> 00:33:32.098 (audience laughs) 678 00:33:32.098 --> 00:33:36.909 Now, talk about a child asserting her 679 00:33:36.909 --> 00:33:40.824 rather stereotypic gender role with a fire truck. 680 00:33:40.824 --> 00:33:42.680 But again, gender behavior is culturally based, 681 00:33:42.680 --> 00:33:43.932 and historically specific. 682 00:33:43.932 --> 00:33:45.311 One of the fun things to do is to look 683 00:33:45.311 --> 00:33:47.214 at the role of pink and blue. 684 00:33:47.214 --> 00:33:49.746 Which has varied even in the last hundred years, 685 00:33:49.746 --> 00:33:51.114 between which was a masculine color 686 00:33:51.114 --> 00:33:53.726 and which was a feminine color. 687 00:33:53.726 --> 00:33:54.839 Right now, it's blue and pink, 688 00:33:54.839 --> 00:33:57.092 but a hundred years ago it was the reverse. 689 00:33:57.092 --> 00:33:58.252 So you can see how these things 690 00:33:58.252 --> 00:34:00.800 are fluid and change as well. 691 00:34:00.800 --> 00:34:02.694 Which can be quite confusing. 692 00:34:02.694 --> 00:34:06.130 Gender roles are taught by demonstration and expectation. 693 00:34:06.130 --> 00:34:09.286 But again, the reality is that what you're being taught 694 00:34:09.286 --> 00:34:11.166 may confront or rub up against 695 00:34:11.166 --> 00:34:13.210 who you feel yourself to be. 696 00:34:13.210 --> 00:34:15.393 And depending upon who is teaching you, 697 00:34:15.393 --> 00:34:16.669 and who is demonstrating for you, 698 00:34:16.669 --> 00:34:18.621 they may not take that very well. 699 00:34:18.621 --> 00:34:21.637 So it's a challenging, challenging area. 700 00:34:22.729 --> 00:34:24.151 Gender is a social construction. 701 00:34:24.151 --> 00:34:26.286 And it's so pervasive that in our society 702 00:34:26.286 --> 00:34:28.630 we've gone to assume it's bred into our genes. 703 00:34:28.630 --> 00:34:31.046 Just the very fact that it's a pervasive belief, 704 00:34:31.046 --> 00:34:33.194 means it must be in the genes, right? 705 00:34:34.134 --> 00:34:35.892 Do you all agree with? I hope not. 706 00:34:35.892 --> 00:34:37.820 No, these days we like to say 707 00:34:37.820 --> 00:34:40.492 that things that seem obvious are genetic. 708 00:34:40.492 --> 00:34:42.163 Most people find it hard to believe 709 00:34:42.163 --> 00:34:43.927 that gender is constantly created 710 00:34:43.927 --> 00:34:46.459 and recreated out of human interaction, out of social life, 711 00:34:46.459 --> 00:34:49.595 and it's the texture and order of that social life. 712 00:34:49.595 --> 00:34:52.819 Yet, like culture, gender's a human production, 713 00:34:52.819 --> 00:34:55.962 and we're all always doing gender. 714 00:34:55.962 --> 00:34:59.093 And even if you're radical about gender, 715 00:34:59.093 --> 00:35:01.533 you're still doing radical about gender. 716 00:35:01.533 --> 00:35:04.352 You have to do it because otherwise 717 00:35:05.206 --> 00:35:07.357 you're going to go through the world being done, 718 00:35:07.357 --> 00:35:08.750 I would say. (laughs) 719 00:35:08.750 --> 00:35:09.992 That sounds fun and strange, doesn't it? 720 00:35:09.992 --> 00:35:12.070 But, so keeping terms straight. 721 00:35:12.070 --> 00:35:14.642 Sex is what science says you are. 722 00:35:15.436 --> 00:35:18.130 If you can buy that, we'll go with that. 723 00:35:18.130 --> 00:35:21.731 Gender is who you believe you are and how you express it. 724 00:35:22.913 --> 00:35:25.324 Sexual orientation is whom you desire. 725 00:35:25.324 --> 00:35:28.167 And again, it's a third separate category. 726 00:35:28.167 --> 00:35:29.666 You cannot assume, for example, 727 00:35:29.666 --> 00:35:31.244 that because I have a bracelet 728 00:35:31.244 --> 00:35:32.823 my mother gave me when I was 17 729 00:35:32.823 --> 00:35:34.764 that I am therefore gay. 730 00:35:34.764 --> 00:35:37.033 Maybe I am gay, maybe I'm not. 731 00:35:37.033 --> 00:35:39.806 But I have a bracelet and that's apparently, 732 00:35:39.806 --> 00:35:42.940 it goes in the second category rather than the third. 733 00:35:42.940 --> 00:35:45.375 Although they could be related, but they might not be. 734 00:35:46.423 --> 00:35:49.192 Sexual orientation is independent of sex. 735 00:35:51.974 --> 00:35:54.226 And we do know that gender atypical boys and girls 736 00:35:54.226 --> 00:35:56.989 are more likely to have same sex attractions, 737 00:35:56.989 --> 00:35:59.868 but not necessarily. 738 00:35:59.868 --> 00:36:01.493 So again, it's all about a world 739 00:36:01.493 --> 00:36:03.885 where you can't make assumptions. 740 00:36:03.885 --> 00:36:06.648 The assumptive world does not apply here. 741 00:36:06.648 --> 00:36:09.956 Now the John Joan case is one that 742 00:36:09.956 --> 00:36:12.596 I think is an extremely powerful 743 00:36:12.596 --> 00:36:15.212 and important case to talk about. 744 00:36:15.212 --> 00:36:18.231 Are you all familiar with this case to some extent? 745 00:36:18.231 --> 00:36:19.810 John Colapinto wrote about. 746 00:36:19.810 --> 00:36:21.231 These were a pair of Canadian twins 747 00:36:21.231 --> 00:36:22.706 that were born into a Mennonite family 748 00:36:22.706 --> 00:36:26.444 in rural Canada in the 1960s. 749 00:36:26.444 --> 00:36:29.473 And these were identical twin boys. 750 00:36:29.473 --> 00:36:32.643 And at six months the boys had phimosis, 751 00:36:32.643 --> 00:36:36.706 meaning a constriction of the foreskin of their penises. 752 00:36:36.706 --> 00:36:40.306 They went to have circumcision and one of them, 753 00:36:40.306 --> 00:36:42.442 in an unfortunate, very unfortunate accident, 754 00:36:42.442 --> 00:36:44.473 had his penis burned off. 755 00:36:45.344 --> 00:36:47.670 And this is a real problem if you're a boy 756 00:36:47.670 --> 00:36:49.586 or a man to have your penis burned off. 757 00:36:49.586 --> 00:36:51.392 I think you would agree. 758 00:36:53.127 --> 00:36:57.576 According to the very prevalent notion of the time, 759 00:36:57.576 --> 00:37:00.968 expounded by John Money at Johns Hopkins University, 760 00:37:01.878 --> 00:37:04.969 nature didn't matter, nurture was everything. 761 00:37:04.969 --> 00:37:07.349 So if you simply took a child at a very young age, 762 00:37:07.349 --> 00:37:09.032 and you raised them in the gender 763 00:37:09.032 --> 00:37:13.084 that you wanted them to be, they would become that thing. 764 00:37:13.084 --> 00:37:15.104 Now what made this case much more complicated 765 00:37:15.104 --> 00:37:18.277 is that John Money didn't really study John and Joan, 766 00:37:18.277 --> 00:37:19.775 they were proving his theory. 767 00:37:19.775 --> 00:37:20.661 And they were the perfect proof 768 00:37:20.661 --> 00:37:22.774 because they were identical twins. 769 00:37:22.774 --> 00:37:26.365 And so he reported that it was going very, very well 770 00:37:27.590 --> 00:37:29.498 with this twinship that he had created 771 00:37:29.498 --> 00:37:32.319 of a boy and girl, identical twins. 772 00:37:32.319 --> 00:37:34.856 In reality it was going terribly. 773 00:37:37.520 --> 00:37:40.805 Joan was extremely unhappy with this plan. 774 00:37:40.805 --> 00:37:42.001 Was fighting it from the moment 775 00:37:42.001 --> 00:37:46.807 that she was put in this role. 776 00:37:46.807 --> 00:37:49.686 Was in some ways stereotypically more masculine 777 00:37:49.686 --> 00:37:52.159 than her identical twin brother, 778 00:37:52.159 --> 00:37:54.876 and was ripping off the girl clothing that was put on her, 779 00:37:54.876 --> 00:37:57.155 refusing to do the girl thing she was asked to do. 780 00:37:57.155 --> 00:37:58.216 When her parents were instructed 781 00:37:58.216 --> 00:38:01.861 that at every moment they should treat her as a girl, 782 00:38:01.861 --> 00:38:04.322 that if they did not, they would ruin her 783 00:38:04.322 --> 00:38:07.236 and ruin her chances of a proper identity. 784 00:38:07.236 --> 00:38:10.022 Now this was the optimal gender approach, 785 00:38:10.022 --> 00:38:12.262 and it was prevalent and is still, 786 00:38:12.262 --> 00:38:14.282 there's still remnants of it around. 787 00:38:14.282 --> 00:38:16.244 I still encounter people, colleagues, 788 00:38:16.244 --> 00:38:17.966 who believe that this is true. 789 00:38:18.890 --> 00:38:23.890 And the story ends up with Joan, 790 00:38:24.234 --> 00:38:25.886 who by then is now 14, 791 00:38:25.886 --> 00:38:29.067 has been taking estrogens for two years 792 00:38:29.067 --> 00:38:31.784 and has had enough breast development 793 00:38:31.784 --> 00:38:35.010 that he has to undergo a mastectomy as a teenager 794 00:38:35.010 --> 00:38:38.538 to revert to being the boy that he always was. 795 00:38:39.375 --> 00:38:41.179 Okay, you got that story straight? 796 00:38:41.179 --> 00:38:45.155 And so this is a picture on the right of Joan become John. 797 00:38:46.151 --> 00:38:50.466 And another picture here of Joan become John. 798 00:38:50.466 --> 00:38:52.927 Now the story is actually really, really tragic 799 00:38:52.927 --> 00:38:54.772 because it actually probably destroyed 800 00:38:54.772 --> 00:38:57.117 the lives of both twins. 801 00:38:57.117 --> 00:38:59.332 In his mid 30s, 802 00:39:01.183 --> 00:39:03.854 the boy-boy twin killed himself. 803 00:39:03.854 --> 00:39:04.934 And two years later, 804 00:39:04.934 --> 00:39:07.533 the girl-boy twin killed himself as well. 805 00:39:08.462 --> 00:39:12.179 So it's really an incredibly tragic story. 806 00:39:13.065 --> 00:39:15.959 Now again, this is the work of Reiner, 807 00:39:15.959 --> 00:39:19.064 who has some, you think my resume is strange, 808 00:39:19.064 --> 00:39:21.003 this person is trained as a child psychiatrist 809 00:39:21.003 --> 00:39:23.428 and a urologist. 810 00:39:23.428 --> 00:39:24.078 Sound like a bad joke, 811 00:39:24.078 --> 00:39:27.143 what do a urologist and a child psychiatrist have in common? 812 00:39:27.143 --> 00:39:27.728 (audience laughs) 813 00:39:27.728 --> 00:39:31.854 In any case, he was a product of the money 814 00:39:31.854 --> 00:39:35.049 at Johns Hopkins universe but didn't buy it. 815 00:39:35.049 --> 00:39:38.091 And he studied 16 chromosomal males 816 00:39:38.091 --> 00:39:39.861 who had colloquial exstrophy, 817 00:39:39.861 --> 00:39:42.415 meaning that they were born with testicles, 818 00:39:42.415 --> 00:39:46.559 but without any, their abdominal wall was not there. 819 00:39:46.559 --> 00:39:49.020 So they're missing their private parts basically 820 00:39:49.020 --> 00:39:50.622 and had to have something done 821 00:39:50.622 --> 00:39:53.478 to deal with the fact that they were basically 822 00:39:53.478 --> 00:39:57.022 wide open in their belly like a bad horror movie. 823 00:39:57.022 --> 00:40:00.240 And according to the mores at the time, 824 00:40:00.240 --> 00:40:02.282 they were all raised as girls. 825 00:40:02.282 --> 00:40:04.516 The surgeries were done and they were turned into girls. 826 00:40:04.516 --> 00:40:07.999 Except for two, his parents refused to go along with that. 827 00:40:07.999 --> 00:40:10.008 So they had the reparative surgeries, 828 00:40:10.008 --> 00:40:12.411 but raised the two of the 14 as boys. 829 00:40:12.411 --> 00:40:15.673 Now Reiner followed these boys up many years later 830 00:40:15.673 --> 00:40:17.936 in a New England Journal article. 831 00:40:17.936 --> 00:40:21.036 And again, reminding you, normal internal testes, 832 00:40:21.036 --> 00:40:25.169 disrupted external genitalia, normal brains. 833 00:40:25.169 --> 00:40:27.077 Don't forget, normal brains. 834 00:40:27.077 --> 00:40:28.331 I once had a schizophrenic patient 835 00:40:28.331 --> 00:40:30.467 who kept attacking his penis 836 00:40:30.467 --> 00:40:33.230 because he said he wanted to destroy his lust. 837 00:40:33.230 --> 00:40:34.437 I did not tell him that he should be 838 00:40:34.437 --> 00:40:36.678 shooting himself in the head, 839 00:40:36.678 --> 00:40:38.698 because he had shot and cut himself in the genitals. 840 00:40:38.698 --> 00:40:41.670 But the brain is important, it's very important. 841 00:40:41.670 --> 00:40:44.967 16 of the 16 people demonstrated 842 00:40:44.967 --> 00:40:46.353 male-typical gender behaviors, 843 00:40:46.353 --> 00:40:49.580 even though they'd been raised, 14 of them as girls. 844 00:40:49.580 --> 00:40:51.879 Two of the 16 were raised as boys. 845 00:40:51.879 --> 00:40:56.359 14 of the 16 were surgically altered to look like girls. 846 00:40:57.556 --> 00:41:00.694 Eight of the 14 became males in adolescence. 847 00:41:00.694 --> 00:41:03.144 Lived as males, identified as males. 848 00:41:04.285 --> 00:41:07.096 Six of the eight had sexual reassignment surgery so that 849 00:41:07.096 --> 00:41:11.844 they could be physically manifesting their masculinity. 850 00:41:12.750 --> 00:41:16.370 Five of 14 continued to live as females. 851 00:41:16.370 --> 00:41:18.746 Three of the five had an unclear sense 852 00:41:18.746 --> 00:41:20.116 of themselves or gender identity, 853 00:41:20.116 --> 00:41:22.496 but were tending to think of themselves as male, 854 00:41:22.496 --> 00:41:25.178 and one refused to talk about it. 855 00:41:25.178 --> 00:41:27.059 Now I'm surprised that more than one didn't refuse 856 00:41:27.059 --> 00:41:28.301 to talk about it because I think 857 00:41:28.301 --> 00:41:30.715 I'd be pretty pissed and wouldn't want to talk about it. 858 00:41:30.715 --> 00:41:31.900 But the point of this study, 859 00:41:31.900 --> 00:41:34.685 which I think is really, really important, 860 00:41:34.685 --> 00:41:36.195 New England Journal 2004, 861 00:41:36.195 --> 00:41:39.029 is it really, really, I think, 862 00:41:39.029 --> 00:41:41.636 shot down the optimal gender doctrine. 863 00:41:41.636 --> 00:41:44.655 In a way that makes that doctrine 864 00:41:44.655 --> 00:41:47.131 of John Money just completely unacceptable. 865 00:41:47.131 --> 00:41:49.453 And Reiner's continued to go on to work 866 00:41:49.453 --> 00:41:52.193 with populations, in this case, 867 00:41:53.077 --> 00:41:55.924 well, I'm not sure quite what to call these folks, 868 00:41:55.924 --> 00:41:57.515 but they speak to, he has things to say 869 00:41:57.515 --> 00:42:00.220 about transgendered folks, about intersex folks, 870 00:42:00.220 --> 00:42:03.018 and about people who have these congenital anomalies 871 00:42:03.018 --> 00:42:05.038 that don't, do not in fact, 872 00:42:05.038 --> 00:42:07.173 tell you what you should do with them. 873 00:42:08.195 --> 00:42:10.290 So they're unpredictable identifications. 874 00:42:10.290 --> 00:42:11.265 That was Reiner's point. 875 00:42:11.265 --> 00:42:14.339 That routine male assignment of genetic males to female sex 876 00:42:14.339 --> 00:42:16.232 because they don't have a penis 877 00:42:16.232 --> 00:42:19.540 can result in unpredictable identifications later. 878 00:42:19.540 --> 00:42:21.281 Clinical interventions in such children 879 00:42:21.281 --> 00:42:24.659 should be re-examined, the light of these findings. 880 00:42:24.659 --> 00:42:26.679 That is don't do anything. 881 00:42:26.679 --> 00:42:29.650 Let the child grow and tell you who they are. 882 00:42:30.511 --> 00:42:32.390 You can do that surgery stuff later. 883 00:42:33.223 --> 00:42:35.072 It also brings up the notion that sex hormones 884 00:42:35.072 --> 00:42:38.369 do organize the prenatal brain. 885 00:42:38.369 --> 00:42:40.250 So future sex reassignment decisions 886 00:42:40.250 --> 00:42:42.211 should be made with maximum sophistication 887 00:42:42.211 --> 00:42:43.616 in regard to the implications, 888 00:42:43.616 --> 00:42:46.333 psychosocial and psychosexual brain development, 889 00:42:46.333 --> 00:42:49.234 as it is influenced by the intrauterine hormonal milieu. 890 00:42:49.234 --> 00:42:50.976 Now I want to say here 891 00:42:50.976 --> 00:42:53.008 that we come up against the limitations 892 00:42:53.008 --> 00:42:57.245 of what we know with how the brain is sexed. 893 00:42:57.245 --> 00:42:59.312 So we don't have a explanation 894 00:42:59.312 --> 00:43:02.492 for how transgender works in the brain, 895 00:43:02.492 --> 00:43:04.849 but we have the fact that it exists. 896 00:43:04.849 --> 00:43:06.428 And the notion that somehow we know 897 00:43:06.428 --> 00:43:07.963 and can make decisions for people 898 00:43:07.963 --> 00:43:09.774 based on what we know, we don't know. 899 00:43:09.774 --> 00:43:11.400 We don't know. 900 00:43:11.400 --> 00:43:13.280 Reiner is making observations based on 901 00:43:13.280 --> 00:43:14.963 what he saw with these 16 people 902 00:43:14.963 --> 00:43:18.056 who are raised in the wrong gender. 903 00:43:19.398 --> 00:43:21.253 There's also good evidence. 904 00:43:21.253 --> 00:43:23.553 This is from Sheri Berenbaum, who's a psychologist 905 00:43:23.553 --> 00:43:27.093 who has studied, again, masculinization, 906 00:43:27.093 --> 00:43:29.369 which by definition includes feminization of the brain. 907 00:43:29.369 --> 00:43:32.154 The point is that the brain is genderized. 908 00:43:32.154 --> 00:43:33.525 Is that right? Sounds like blenderized. 909 00:43:33.525 --> 00:43:35.513 But in any case, that something happens 910 00:43:35.513 --> 00:43:38.892 in utero to lead to something. 911 00:43:38.892 --> 00:43:40.098 And that there is good evidence 912 00:43:40.098 --> 00:43:42.374 that exposure to high levels of androgens 913 00:43:42.374 --> 00:43:44.197 during prenatal development can result 914 00:43:44.197 --> 00:43:46.112 in masculinization of activity, 915 00:43:46.112 --> 00:43:47.250 and of occupational interest, 916 00:43:47.250 --> 00:43:50.268 sexual orientation, and some spatial abilities. 917 00:43:50.268 --> 00:43:54.196 Smaller effect on pre-gender identity, but still there. 918 00:43:54.196 --> 00:43:56.603 Now again, this would mean potentially 919 00:43:56.603 --> 00:43:59.582 that someone who had a core gender identity as a female 920 00:43:59.582 --> 00:44:01.737 could nonetheless be much more interested 921 00:44:01.737 --> 00:44:04.070 in masculine activities and perhaps choose 922 00:44:04.070 --> 00:44:07.129 a same sex partner, more likely. 923 00:44:08.098 --> 00:44:09.259 The brain knows. 924 00:44:09.259 --> 00:44:11.418 Reiner again, saying, "Clinical decisions should not be 925 00:44:11.418 --> 00:44:14.216 "based on anatomy or correctness of sexual function, 926 00:44:14.216 --> 00:44:17.478 "but on what the brain wants to do." 927 00:44:17.478 --> 00:44:20.187 You know, people manage to work out their sexual function. 928 00:44:20.187 --> 00:44:21.244 They don't need to have the focus 929 00:44:21.244 --> 00:44:24.343 be simply on building them an organ that will work. 930 00:44:24.343 --> 00:44:26.143 Which again, is sort of the Money approach. 931 00:44:26.143 --> 00:44:28.905 And by and large, the organ that will work is a vagina 932 00:44:28.905 --> 00:44:31.204 because it's too hard to build a penis. 933 00:44:31.204 --> 00:44:34.479 That's the reality of surgery, make 'em into girls. 934 00:44:34.479 --> 00:44:36.247 Which I think is offensive to women, 935 00:44:36.247 --> 00:44:38.726 as well as offensive on lots of levels. 936 00:44:38.726 --> 00:44:41.884 But anyway, back to the brain being the critical organ. 937 00:44:41.884 --> 00:44:44.761 And the one that we actually don't understand terribly well. 938 00:44:45.924 --> 00:44:47.724 There's a clinical threshold. 939 00:44:47.724 --> 00:44:49.576 And these are from the Harry Benjamin's 940 00:44:49.576 --> 00:44:51.978 Standards of Care from 2001. 941 00:44:51.978 --> 00:44:54.556 There are updated standards that came out in 2011. 942 00:44:54.556 --> 00:44:56.298 I tried to read them for pithy quotes 943 00:44:56.298 --> 00:44:58.213 and they simply aren't there. (laughs) 944 00:44:58.213 --> 00:44:59.455 From what I could tell. 945 00:44:59.455 --> 00:45:02.752 They're very prescriptive without being very philosophical. 946 00:45:02.752 --> 00:45:05.515 So the notion here was that 947 00:45:05.515 --> 00:45:06.676 a clinical threshold is passed 948 00:45:06.676 --> 00:45:08.498 when concerns, uncertainties, and questions 949 00:45:08.498 --> 00:45:11.273 about gender identify persist in development, 950 00:45:11.273 --> 00:45:13.189 become so important as to affect 951 00:45:13.189 --> 00:45:15.916 how a person functions in their life. 952 00:45:15.916 --> 00:45:18.351 I think we could probably all agree with that. 953 00:45:19.249 --> 00:45:22.002 And such struggles start in the preschool years 954 00:45:22.002 --> 00:45:23.558 and can go on through old age 955 00:45:23.558 --> 00:45:26.042 with many, many different forms. 956 00:45:26.042 --> 00:45:27.633 They come about because people 957 00:45:27.633 --> 00:45:30.050 are unhappy with their anatomy, 958 00:45:30.050 --> 00:45:31.601 or what their body looks like. 959 00:45:31.601 --> 00:45:32.727 If they feel themselves to be a woman 960 00:45:32.727 --> 00:45:35.124 and they have all these male parts, yuk. 961 00:45:35.124 --> 00:45:36.980 As what happened with a patient of mine 962 00:45:36.980 --> 00:45:40.451 who was a genetic female 963 00:45:40.451 --> 00:45:43.272 but very much felt himself to be a man. 964 00:45:43.272 --> 00:45:45.477 Was totally disgusted with menstruation 965 00:45:45.477 --> 00:45:47.951 and with those breasts, and it was very bad. 966 00:45:47.951 --> 00:45:49.459 And in fact, I'm quite proud of myself 967 00:45:49.459 --> 00:45:51.097 because this person was rejected 968 00:45:51.097 --> 00:45:53.859 for a mastectomy by a large insurance company, 969 00:45:53.859 --> 00:45:56.773 and I appealed it as a congenital disorder, 970 00:45:56.773 --> 00:45:59.363 and they got the surgery done. 971 00:45:59.363 --> 00:46:00.458 And it hasn't happened again, 972 00:46:00.458 --> 00:46:02.118 but that one time it seemed pretty cool 973 00:46:02.118 --> 00:46:03.426 that we could do that. 974 00:46:04.467 --> 00:46:07.041 So now I'm going to play the first of the clip 975 00:46:07.041 --> 00:46:08.876 from a patient of mine. 976 00:46:08.876 --> 00:46:12.521 And this was a woman who was referred to me 977 00:46:12.521 --> 00:46:16.209 with concerns about whether or not 978 00:46:16.209 --> 00:46:18.731 she was actually really a man, okay? 979 00:46:18.731 --> 00:46:20.646 So we'll have three different short clips, 980 00:46:20.646 --> 00:46:23.153 and then some things in between. 981 00:46:23.153 --> 00:46:24.818 And if it works, it will run. 982 00:46:24.818 --> 00:46:26.356 Tell me a little of your story. 983 00:46:26.356 --> 00:46:27.880 How did you come to see me? 984 00:46:27.880 --> 00:46:29.772 What was going on? 985 00:46:29.772 --> 00:46:33.146 - Well, I had been going to my endocrinologist 986 00:46:33.146 --> 00:46:35.944 and just expressed to him that I was 987 00:46:35.944 --> 00:46:40.483 having problems resolving issues of sexuality. 988 00:46:40.483 --> 00:46:44.046 And he suggested that I should talk to you. 989 00:46:44.046 --> 00:46:46.543 And through a series of referrals anyway, 990 00:46:46.543 --> 00:46:47.981 I got to you. 991 00:46:49.341 --> 00:46:50.204 - [John] Was there a piece in there 992 00:46:50.204 --> 00:46:52.666 also about gender issues? 993 00:46:52.666 --> 00:46:54.790 - Well, at the, I did explain to him 994 00:46:54.790 --> 00:46:57.981 that when I was born 995 00:46:57.981 --> 00:47:00.716 that I had had surgery 996 00:47:00.716 --> 00:47:03.977 because of some ambiguous genitalia. 997 00:47:03.977 --> 00:47:08.586 And that I felt that that was an issue, 998 00:47:08.586 --> 00:47:11.818 and I was just dealing with confusion 999 00:47:11.818 --> 00:47:13.676 as to whether I was a lesbian, 1000 00:47:13.676 --> 00:47:16.182 whether I was straight because I had been married. 1001 00:47:17.845 --> 00:47:20.227 I had conflicting issues with a church 1002 00:47:20.227 --> 00:47:22.305 I'm currently going to. 1003 00:47:22.305 --> 00:47:25.044 And basically just confused. 1004 00:47:26.779 --> 00:47:28.114 - [John] What was the connection in your mind 1005 00:47:28.114 --> 00:47:32.683 between your confusion and the ambiguous genitalia? 1006 00:47:34.116 --> 00:47:39.110 - Well, I think a lot of it was 1007 00:47:40.440 --> 00:47:42.675 because of my involvement in the church, 1008 00:47:44.869 --> 00:47:49.460 I felt that I was expected to think and behave 1009 00:47:49.460 --> 00:47:51.619 in a way very consistent with 1010 00:47:52.493 --> 00:47:55.305 what would be for lack of a better term, a woman. 1011 00:47:55.305 --> 00:47:59.461 And I don't always think and feel that way. 1012 00:47:59.461 --> 00:48:01.562 And that caused great confusion for me, 1013 00:48:01.562 --> 00:48:04.179 and 'cause I didn't know what to do with that. 1014 00:48:05.764 --> 00:48:08.086 - [John] When you say you don't think and feel 1015 00:48:08.086 --> 00:48:10.310 like a woman, what do you mean? 1016 00:48:12.161 --> 00:48:14.226 - It's hard to describe. 1017 00:48:15.864 --> 00:48:17.969 I think a lot of it is in the way 1018 00:48:19.083 --> 00:48:21.209 I interact with other people. 1019 00:48:22.908 --> 00:48:24.110 With either gender. 1020 00:48:24.885 --> 00:48:26.815 A lot of times I feel more comfortable 1021 00:48:27.705 --> 00:48:32.705 hanging around with guys than I do with women. 1022 00:48:34.579 --> 00:48:35.600 I don't have a lot of interest 1023 00:48:35.600 --> 00:48:39.640 in what I refer to as girly activities. 1024 00:48:39.640 --> 00:48:41.477 But it's been a problem because 1025 00:48:42.419 --> 00:48:44.868 as I present myself as female, 1026 00:48:46.220 --> 00:48:49.579 I can't cross into just either world easily. 1027 00:48:49.579 --> 00:48:52.331 It's not like I'm accepted hanging out with the guys 1028 00:48:52.331 --> 00:48:54.718 because they view me as a woman. 1029 00:48:56.754 --> 00:48:59.992 So it's just sometimes quite difficult. 1030 00:49:00.948 --> 00:49:03.620 - [John] So you don't want to hang out with the girls 1031 00:49:03.620 --> 00:49:06.778 because you don't feel comfortable with them as a girl. 1032 00:49:06.778 --> 00:49:07.672 - Correct. 1033 00:49:07.672 --> 00:49:08.952 - [John] And you don't want to hang out with-- 1034 00:49:08.952 --> 00:49:10.171 - Doing the nails and the hair 1035 00:49:10.171 --> 00:49:11.935 on a Saturday night with your girls. 1036 00:49:11.935 --> 00:49:15.685 No, that's just not, that's just not me. 1037 00:49:15.685 --> 00:49:16.904 - [John] And you're not permitted to hang out 1038 00:49:16.904 --> 00:49:21.029 with the guys because they think of you as, 1039 00:49:21.029 --> 00:49:22.620 - They think of me as a woman. 1040 00:49:22.620 --> 00:49:23.269 - [John] As a woman. 1041 00:49:23.269 --> 00:49:26.107 - So obviously they wouldn't include me in that group. 1042 00:49:26.989 --> 00:49:31.122 So it's, it's, tends to be difficult. 1043 00:49:32.393 --> 00:49:34.906 - [John] What do you think of yourself as? 1044 00:49:36.096 --> 00:49:39.682 - Well, I'm not unhappy to have, 1045 00:49:40.879 --> 00:49:42.856 I'm not unhappy being a woman. 1046 00:49:42.856 --> 00:49:46.879 It's not like I have a desire to become a man. 1047 00:49:49.055 --> 00:49:50.889 I think of myself, 1048 00:49:53.135 --> 00:49:56.142 at least in the way my mind operates, 1049 00:49:56.142 --> 00:49:58.139 as more masculine. 1050 00:49:58.139 --> 00:49:59.799 In the way I deal with other people, 1051 00:49:59.799 --> 00:50:02.340 in the way I deal with situations. 1052 00:50:03.874 --> 00:50:07.372 I tend to be at least, 1053 00:50:07.372 --> 00:50:09.473 if a personality profiles that we do 1054 00:50:09.473 --> 00:50:10.889 through work and stuff, 1055 00:50:10.889 --> 00:50:13.496 I'm a driver and implementer. 1056 00:50:15.196 --> 00:50:17.270 I just feel, 1057 00:50:19.423 --> 00:50:23.353 I feel I think like a guy in a lotta ways. 1058 00:50:24.275 --> 00:50:26.370 - [John] And if anatomy weren't an issue, 1059 00:50:27.839 --> 00:50:31.078 and what would you be at core? 1060 00:50:31.078 --> 00:50:33.181 - I'd be a male at core. 1061 00:50:33.181 --> 00:50:34.817 No question about it. 1062 00:50:37.887 --> 00:50:40.406 - I think it's interesting how many stereotypes 1063 00:50:40.406 --> 00:50:44.080 she puts out there trying to figure out who she is. 1064 00:50:44.922 --> 00:50:49.105 So intersexuality is what I wanted to talk about some. 1065 00:50:49.105 --> 00:50:50.593 And it's when there's a disagreement 1066 00:50:50.593 --> 00:50:54.427 between the phenotypic and the gonadal sex. 1067 00:50:54.427 --> 00:50:58.017 So what the body looks like versus what the gonads are, 1068 00:50:59.085 --> 00:51:03.740 are not adding up to what generally is called normal. 1069 00:51:05.290 --> 00:51:07.054 For a male pseudohermaphrodite, 1070 00:51:07.054 --> 00:51:10.442 there's testicular tissue, but female external genitalia. 1071 00:51:11.524 --> 00:51:13.211 And for a female pseudohermaphrodite, 1072 00:51:13.211 --> 00:51:16.258 there's ovarian tissue, but male external genitalia. 1073 00:51:16.258 --> 00:51:17.918 Now I can already tell you, 1074 00:51:17.918 --> 00:51:19.961 there'll be lots of diagnoses coming. 1075 00:51:19.961 --> 00:51:21.319 I'll try not to belabor any of them, 1076 00:51:21.319 --> 00:51:23.096 but there are many, many different conditions 1077 00:51:23.096 --> 00:51:26.331 that fall into intersexuality. 1078 00:51:26.334 --> 00:51:27.605 A hermaphrodite is someone who 1079 00:51:27.605 --> 00:51:30.948 has both testicular and ovarian tissue. 1080 00:51:30.948 --> 00:51:32.492 So it's actually a tissue diagnosis, 1081 00:51:32.492 --> 00:51:34.721 not a descriptive diagnosis. 1082 00:51:35.972 --> 00:51:38.971 And by the way, in her story she talks about 1083 00:51:40.322 --> 00:51:42.736 how testicular tissue was removed. 1084 00:51:42.736 --> 00:51:45.500 She learned that only 50 years later 1085 00:51:45.500 --> 00:51:48.223 when we were actually able to get the lab report 1086 00:51:48.223 --> 00:51:50.017 that she'd never seen 1087 00:51:50.017 --> 00:51:52.215 from the naval hospital where she was born. 1088 00:51:52.215 --> 00:51:55.315 So with hermaphrodites, again it's a tissue diagnosis, 1089 00:51:55.315 --> 00:51:56.870 so you can look male, you can look female, 1090 00:51:56.870 --> 00:51:59.030 or you can have an ambiguous phenotype. 1091 00:51:59.030 --> 00:52:00.596 That's not the way we usually think of it. 1092 00:52:00.596 --> 00:52:03.614 But that is actually the definition. 1093 00:52:03.614 --> 00:52:05.076 And the whole point of intersexuality 1094 00:52:05.076 --> 00:52:07.364 is its diversity, not pathology. 1095 00:52:08.474 --> 00:52:10.922 Again, back to that sociocultural construction. 1096 00:52:10.922 --> 00:52:13.301 The level of pathology, the level of medical involvement, 1097 00:52:13.301 --> 00:52:14.939 the level of psychological involvement 1098 00:52:14.939 --> 00:52:16.378 or social involvement that's needed 1099 00:52:16.378 --> 00:52:18.699 to help folks who are different, 1100 00:52:18.699 --> 00:52:21.991 is a diversity issue I think, not a pathological one. 1101 00:52:22.879 --> 00:52:25.201 Male pseudohermaphroditism is complete 1102 00:52:25.201 --> 00:52:27.499 or partial androgen sensitivity. 1103 00:52:27.499 --> 00:52:29.450 And this is a condition in which 1104 00:52:29.450 --> 00:52:31.322 the individual has normal testes 1105 00:52:31.322 --> 00:52:33.518 and normal testosterone production, 1106 00:52:33.518 --> 00:52:36.803 but the testosterone doesn't do much. 1107 00:52:36.803 --> 00:52:38.034 In other words, you have to have receptors 1108 00:52:38.034 --> 00:52:39.927 that already receive that testosterone 1109 00:52:39.927 --> 00:52:42.853 produced by the testes in order to have 1110 00:52:42.853 --> 00:52:45.360 the things develop and evolve 1111 00:52:47.526 --> 00:52:49.252 that are testosterone related. 1112 00:52:49.252 --> 00:52:52.469 Interestingly, what actually masculinizes the brain 1113 00:52:52.469 --> 00:52:55.242 is estrogen, a breakdown product of testosterone, 1114 00:52:55.242 --> 00:52:57.786 which I just think is kind of fascinating. 1115 00:52:57.786 --> 00:53:01.024 But with a complete androgen insensitivity syndrome, 1116 00:53:01.024 --> 00:53:04.124 these are actually women who often look like 1117 00:53:04.124 --> 00:53:06.711 stereotypically fabulous women 1118 00:53:06.711 --> 00:53:09.062 because they have Barbie figures. 1119 00:53:09.062 --> 00:53:10.130 They have narrow male hips, 1120 00:53:10.130 --> 00:53:11.221 they have long, long legs. 1121 00:53:11.221 --> 00:53:12.881 They have proportions that are male, 1122 00:53:12.881 --> 00:53:16.886 but they don't have any of the male parts. 1123 00:53:16.886 --> 00:53:20.269 But there are also folks who have partial receptor responses 1124 00:53:20.269 --> 00:53:21.373 so they have bits and pieces 1125 00:53:21.373 --> 00:53:24.205 of the male masculinization going on. 1126 00:53:25.250 --> 00:53:27.171 There can be no brain masculinization, 1127 00:53:27.171 --> 00:53:29.748 probably with a complete androgen insensitivity situation. 1128 00:53:29.748 --> 00:53:32.073 And there can be partial brain masculinization. 1129 00:53:32.073 --> 00:53:33.769 There can be a female gender identity 1130 00:53:33.769 --> 00:53:36.832 or a male gender identity, or something in between. 1131 00:53:37.995 --> 00:53:40.227 The phenotype, the body may be female, 1132 00:53:40.227 --> 00:53:41.562 or it may be ambiguous. 1133 00:53:41.562 --> 00:53:44.500 Again, because there's a range of receptor responses, 1134 00:53:44.500 --> 00:53:48.304 and there are probably many versions of this condition. 1135 00:53:48.304 --> 00:53:52.077 5-alpha-reductase deficiency is a diagnosis from Middlesex. 1136 00:53:52.077 --> 00:53:55.108 So this is a condition where there are normal testes 1137 00:53:55.108 --> 00:53:57.313 and normal testosterone production. 1138 00:53:57.313 --> 00:53:59.008 There's normal brain masculinization 1139 00:53:59.008 --> 00:54:01.237 and normal male gender identity, 1140 00:54:01.237 --> 00:54:04.453 but the body is not really responding 1141 00:54:04.453 --> 00:54:06.612 because of this failure to convert testosterone 1142 00:54:06.612 --> 00:54:09.271 to dihydrotestosterone, the body doesn't masculinize 1143 00:54:09.271 --> 00:54:11.987 until puberty when there's so much testosterone 1144 00:54:11.987 --> 00:54:14.889 that finally the body masculinizes. 1145 00:54:14.889 --> 00:54:15.992 And there are cultures because 1146 00:54:15.992 --> 00:54:18.509 this is an autosomal receptive condition, 1147 00:54:20.169 --> 00:54:22.285 a condition in which this is just sort of known. 1148 00:54:22.285 --> 00:54:23.585 In several populations around the world, 1149 00:54:23.585 --> 00:54:25.803 where they're just people who turn into men 1150 00:54:25.803 --> 00:54:27.719 when they get to puberty and that's okay 1151 00:54:27.719 --> 00:54:28.578 because we've seen this before, 1152 00:54:28.578 --> 00:54:31.317 we know what it is, we understand it. 1153 00:54:31.317 --> 00:54:33.581 The point about Middlesex is that 1154 00:54:33.581 --> 00:54:35.055 they've left that part of the world, 1155 00:54:35.055 --> 00:54:37.803 and they're in the U.S. where nobody really gets it. 1156 00:54:38.914 --> 00:54:42.507 Male pseudohermaphroditism occurs 1157 00:54:42.507 --> 00:54:44.758 with a testicular dysgenesis, 1158 00:54:44.758 --> 00:54:48.932 one or both of the testes are inadequately developed. 1159 00:54:49.959 --> 00:54:52.617 Incomplete fetal masculinization, 1160 00:54:52.617 --> 00:54:54.243 not because you have an ovary, 1161 00:54:54.243 --> 00:54:57.563 but because you have a testis that isn't working very well. 1162 00:54:57.563 --> 00:54:59.565 You can have mixed gonadal dysgenesis 1163 00:54:59.565 --> 00:55:02.583 where you have more than one cell line going on. 1164 00:55:02.583 --> 00:55:04.963 That is you can have a XY line and an XX line, 1165 00:55:04.963 --> 00:55:06.681 or an XY line and an X. 1166 00:55:06.681 --> 00:55:09.089 You can have a mosaic basically 1167 00:55:09.089 --> 00:55:11.816 which leads to various things in between. 1168 00:55:11.816 --> 00:55:12.850 And in fact, the patient here 1169 00:55:12.850 --> 00:55:15.207 is a mosaic as she'll tell you. 1170 00:55:15.207 --> 00:55:18.015 The most common mosaic is actually 46, XY, 1171 00:55:18.015 --> 00:55:20.373 which is male, correct? 1172 00:55:20.373 --> 00:55:22.415 You know what 45, X is? 1173 00:55:22.415 --> 00:55:23.993 It's Turner syndrome. 1174 00:55:23.993 --> 00:55:28.766 And Turner syndrome are women who are typically very short. 1175 00:55:28.766 --> 00:55:30.750 Often have some other characteristics, 1176 00:55:30.750 --> 00:55:32.725 including a broad shield chest. 1177 00:55:32.725 --> 00:55:35.871 Certain characteristics that are quite obvious. 1178 00:55:35.871 --> 00:55:37.809 And in fact if you look at this patient, 1179 00:55:37.809 --> 00:55:39.086 she looks a little bit that way, 1180 00:55:39.086 --> 00:55:41.106 and she's barely five feet tall. 1181 00:55:41.106 --> 00:55:42.267 And one of the comments she made was, 1182 00:55:42.267 --> 00:55:44.705 "I make a terrible guy because I'm so short." 1183 00:55:45.691 --> 00:55:47.775 In any case, this mosaicism is common. 1184 00:55:47.775 --> 00:55:49.729 And again, it can manifest as someone 1185 00:55:49.729 --> 00:55:52.419 who is male, female, or in between. 1186 00:55:54.922 --> 00:55:56.511 If you look at fetal ultrasounds and you see 1187 00:55:56.511 --> 00:55:59.332 that the genitalia are developing abnormally, 1188 00:55:59.332 --> 00:56:00.946 you may find a lot of this. 1189 00:56:00.946 --> 00:56:02.908 If you take a bunch of kids that are just born 1190 00:56:02.908 --> 00:56:03.767 and you check their chromosomes, 1191 00:56:03.767 --> 00:56:04.788 you may find a lot of this, 1192 00:56:04.788 --> 00:56:07.585 but they look completely normal phenotypically. 1193 00:56:08.735 --> 00:56:09.576 So you can have an incomplete 1194 00:56:09.576 --> 00:56:12.393 to full fetal masculinization. 1195 00:56:12.393 --> 00:56:14.046 So congenital adrenal hyperplasia 1196 00:56:14.046 --> 00:56:16.820 is another example of pseudohermaphroditism. 1197 00:56:16.820 --> 00:56:18.190 And this is where the andrenals 1198 00:56:18.190 --> 00:56:20.686 are producing too much masculinizing hormone. 1199 00:56:20.686 --> 00:56:23.263 So not even the sex glands, but the adrenal glands. 1200 00:56:23.263 --> 00:56:25.039 And you end up with a female. 1201 00:56:25.039 --> 00:56:26.502 Typically a female gender identity, 1202 00:56:26.502 --> 00:56:28.627 but maybe a fused labia, 1203 00:56:28.627 --> 00:56:31.749 maybe a masculine habitus, 1204 00:56:31.749 --> 00:56:34.326 maybe a very large clitoris. 1205 00:56:34.326 --> 00:56:36.904 So on the way to a more masculine expression. 1206 00:56:36.904 --> 00:56:39.644 Because remember, genitals all come from the same place. 1207 00:56:39.644 --> 00:56:42.221 And they just develop along different pathways. 1208 00:56:42.221 --> 00:56:45.460 Normal ovaries but too much androgen coming from somewhere. 1209 00:56:45.460 --> 00:56:47.979 Which this could also occur with the mother, 1210 00:56:47.979 --> 00:56:48.780 for whatever reason, 1211 00:56:48.780 --> 00:56:51.617 that's taking androgens during the pregnancy. 1212 00:56:51.617 --> 00:56:54.658 Partial to full body masculinization occurs. 1213 00:56:54.658 --> 00:56:58.198 This is actually probably fairly common in athletes, 1214 00:56:58.198 --> 00:57:00.648 very good female athletes. 1215 00:57:00.648 --> 00:57:02.274 Female gender identity, 1216 00:57:02.274 --> 00:57:04.735 but maybe increased male typical behavior. 1217 00:57:04.735 --> 00:57:08.473 And maybe more likely to choose a same sex partner. 1218 00:57:08.473 --> 00:57:10.829 Again, back to that idea of brain masculinization. 1219 00:57:10.829 --> 00:57:13.267 In this case occurring because of adrenal production, 1220 00:57:13.267 --> 00:57:18.267 or hormones that the mother has taken during the pregnancy. 1221 00:57:18.270 --> 00:57:21.529 So this is a little, a second clip of Cindy. 1222 00:57:21.529 --> 00:57:22.744 Who again, I should have told you, 1223 00:57:22.744 --> 00:57:25.610 at the time of this tape was in her late 40s. 1224 00:57:25.610 --> 00:57:28.071 I met her when she was 48. 1225 00:57:28.071 --> 00:57:29.711 And how long have you known that? 1226 00:57:30.593 --> 00:57:32.889 - Well, when I was raised, 1227 00:57:33.994 --> 00:57:37.224 I had surgery at approximately six months of age, 1228 00:57:37.224 --> 00:57:40.544 where they restructured my clitoris 1229 00:57:40.544 --> 00:57:42.959 because I had a hyper clitoris. 1230 00:57:42.959 --> 00:57:44.898 I did have a vagina. 1231 00:57:44.898 --> 00:57:46.743 And they also did surgery to remove 1232 00:57:46.743 --> 00:57:49.983 what they referred to as testicular tissue, 1233 00:57:49.983 --> 00:57:52.502 although this was back in 1954. 1234 00:57:52.502 --> 00:57:55.822 And I don't know exactly what tests they were able to do. 1235 00:57:55.822 --> 00:57:58.557 I haven't been able to get medical records 1236 00:57:58.557 --> 00:58:02.415 to find out exactly everything that they did. 1237 00:58:03.356 --> 00:58:05.281 As I was growing up, 1238 00:58:05.281 --> 00:58:07.764 I have an abdominal scar. 1239 00:58:09.390 --> 00:58:13.133 My parents explained that I had a hernia as a child. 1240 00:58:13.133 --> 00:58:14.340 And you know, 'cause I had asked 1241 00:58:14.340 --> 00:58:16.813 about this fairly large scar. 1242 00:58:16.813 --> 00:58:20.121 And they told me that I wouldn't be able 1243 00:58:20.121 --> 00:58:21.340 to have children though. 1244 00:58:21.340 --> 00:58:24.080 They did give me that piece of information. 1245 00:58:24.080 --> 00:58:27.604 But I never really questioned it. 1246 00:58:29.501 --> 00:58:32.717 I know growing up, as I look back in hindsight, 1247 00:58:32.717 --> 00:58:36.624 I had a lot of feelings towards 1248 00:58:37.365 --> 00:58:41.847 other women that were maybe not sexual but more paternal. 1249 00:58:41.847 --> 00:58:44.087 I think one of my earliest memories is 1250 00:58:44.087 --> 00:58:45.797 when I was in third grade, 1251 00:58:47.048 --> 00:58:49.007 standing on a hill overlooking the school yard 1252 00:58:49.007 --> 00:58:52.733 with two little girls and I can even remember their name. 1253 00:58:52.733 --> 00:58:54.950 Nikki and Leanne, they were in first grade. 1254 00:58:54.950 --> 00:58:57.087 And I had my arm around each one of 'em on each side, 1255 00:58:57.087 --> 00:59:01.068 and I just felt so protective and not maternal, 1256 00:59:01.068 --> 00:59:05.293 but more paternal of these two little girls. 1257 00:59:06.885 --> 00:59:11.022 So I basically went through life believing 1258 00:59:11.022 --> 00:59:14.464 that I was normal as a female. 1259 00:59:16.118 --> 00:59:17.772 Had boyfriends. 1260 00:59:19.160 --> 00:59:21.952 Sex is, you know, high school. 1261 00:59:23.222 --> 00:59:26.439 I had my first lesbian experience 1262 00:59:26.439 --> 00:59:29.043 probably about a year or so out of high school. 1263 00:59:29.043 --> 00:59:31.180 But then met a man and got married 1264 00:59:31.180 --> 00:59:33.849 and was married for 16 years. 1265 00:59:35.324 --> 00:59:38.736 He knew of my past experiences and that was okay. 1266 00:59:39.741 --> 00:59:41.563 Sexually the relationship was fine. 1267 00:59:41.563 --> 00:59:43.142 I've never had a problem with that. 1268 00:59:43.142 --> 00:59:46.090 It's not like there was ever a problem 1269 00:59:47.396 --> 00:59:49.497 achieving orgasm or anything like that. 1270 00:59:49.497 --> 00:59:54.014 But I know that my fantasy life 1271 00:59:54.014 --> 00:59:57.229 was more geared toward thinking 1272 00:59:57.229 --> 00:59:58.657 of being with another woman 1273 00:59:58.657 --> 01:00:00.583 as opposed to with a man. 1274 01:00:01.676 --> 01:00:04.640 My parents told me after I had been married 1275 01:00:04.640 --> 01:00:09.640 for several years about the surgery I had as a child. 1276 01:00:09.772 --> 01:00:12.562 And their comment was, "Well, you're a big girl now, 1277 01:00:12.562 --> 01:00:15.046 "I guess we can tell you this." 1278 01:00:15.046 --> 01:00:20.046 And so that was pretty shocking for me at that point. 1279 01:00:20.599 --> 01:00:25.405 And I spent a lot of my life after knowing that information, 1280 01:00:27.964 --> 01:00:31.308 what I refer to as my freak issues, I felt like a freak, 1281 01:00:31.308 --> 01:00:34.755 that you know I didn't know where to fit in. 1282 01:00:36.525 --> 01:00:40.472 I eventually divorced after about 16 years of marriage. 1283 01:00:40.472 --> 01:00:43.003 And came out as a lesbian, 1284 01:00:43.003 --> 01:00:46.899 and had a couple of long-term lesbian relationships. 1285 01:00:48.355 --> 01:00:50.403 And it wasn't until recently 1286 01:00:50.403 --> 01:00:52.532 that I had a chromosome analysis done 1287 01:00:52.532 --> 01:00:57.284 where it was discovered that I was XY 1288 01:00:57.284 --> 01:01:01.017 and also XO mosaic. 1289 01:01:02.823 --> 01:01:05.504 - [John] Tell me about how you came 1290 01:01:05.504 --> 01:01:07.002 to have a chromosome analysis 1291 01:01:07.002 --> 01:01:10.750 and what that was like for you. 1292 01:01:10.750 --> 01:01:13.048 - It was interesting because 1293 01:01:13.048 --> 01:01:15.717 after I had started therapy, 1294 01:01:16.813 --> 01:01:17.487 - [John] With me. 1295 01:01:17.487 --> 01:01:22.487 - with you and you had suggested that we find out. 1296 01:01:23.679 --> 01:01:24.961 And you're the first person 1297 01:01:24.961 --> 01:01:26.702 who's ever even suggested that. 1298 01:01:26.702 --> 01:01:28.317 I thought that was kind of interesting. 1299 01:01:28.317 --> 01:01:29.872 And I remember waiting, 1300 01:01:29.872 --> 01:01:33.180 'cause it was almost two weeks before I got the results, 1301 01:01:33.180 --> 01:01:36.199 trying to figure out what results I really wanted to see. 1302 01:01:36.199 --> 01:01:37.731 Part of me wanted, 1303 01:01:37.731 --> 01:01:39.392 part of me wanted XY because 1304 01:01:39.392 --> 01:01:42.317 I felt that's just exactly who I was. (laughs) 1305 01:01:42.317 --> 01:01:44.812 But part of me was really afraid of that. 1306 01:01:46.249 --> 01:01:48.145 I guess at that time I wasn't really 1307 01:01:49.007 --> 01:01:51.765 too conversant on issues of mosaics 1308 01:01:51.765 --> 01:01:55.468 and you know I really didn't have 1309 01:01:55.468 --> 01:01:58.094 as much information as I do now. 1310 01:02:00.065 --> 01:02:01.362 So it was really interesting, 1311 01:02:01.362 --> 01:02:03.962 and when I found out it was, that I was, 1312 01:02:03.962 --> 01:02:07.638 that I was XY and XO mosaic 1313 01:02:10.501 --> 01:02:13.377 I kinda, I went home, 1314 01:02:14.852 --> 01:02:16.772 and I thought about it. 1315 01:02:18.240 --> 01:02:21.583 In some sense it was even more confusing to know about that 1316 01:02:21.583 --> 01:02:25.774 because you know presenting myself as a female 1317 01:02:27.040 --> 01:02:29.088 but having chromosomes with XY, 1318 01:02:29.088 --> 01:02:32.570 it's like I think it almost added to the confusion. 1319 01:02:32.570 --> 01:02:33.484 So it was a dichotomy. 1320 01:02:33.484 --> 01:02:36.386 Part of me was really expecting that, 1321 01:02:36.386 --> 01:02:38.163 but once I got that information it was like, 1322 01:02:38.163 --> 01:02:39.869 well now what do I do? 1323 01:02:45.540 --> 01:02:46.840 - I think you can hear some of John Money 1324 01:02:46.840 --> 01:02:49.527 in the way this person was raised, right? 1325 01:02:49.527 --> 01:02:51.256 Learning in her 20s, 1326 01:02:51.256 --> 01:02:54.333 partway into a marriage about her history, 1327 01:02:54.333 --> 01:02:57.594 having it just be a hernia until that point 1328 01:02:57.594 --> 01:03:01.258 to explain a lot of things that were very confusing for her. 1329 01:03:02.992 --> 01:03:07.404 So in some, sex versus gender, sex chromosomal. 1330 01:03:08.350 --> 01:03:11.391 Anatomic, that's about as good as medicine can do. 1331 01:03:11.391 --> 01:03:15.028 Gender identity, intrapsychic gender. 1332 01:03:15.028 --> 01:03:16.666 You know who you are in other words. 1333 01:03:16.666 --> 01:03:19.581 Gender role, interpersonal and sociocultural. 1334 01:03:19.581 --> 01:03:23.342 Sexual orientation, both intrapsychic and interpersonal 1335 01:03:23.342 --> 01:03:25.142 because presumably if you have sex 1336 01:03:25.142 --> 01:03:28.054 with someone else it becomes an interpersonal phenomenon. 1337 01:03:28.054 --> 01:03:30.353 (audience laughs) 1338 01:03:30.353 --> 01:03:32.285 We were having a conversation earlier today about, 1339 01:03:32.285 --> 01:03:33.550 well I won't, anyway. 1340 01:03:33.550 --> 01:03:35.640 Caster Semenya (laughs) (audience laughs) 1341 01:03:35.640 --> 01:03:37.380 in the news. 1342 01:03:39.266 --> 01:03:40.733 Female gender identity. 1343 01:03:40.733 --> 01:03:42.893 That was made very clear. 1344 01:03:42.893 --> 01:03:46.213 Male-typical childhood behaviors also made very clear. 1345 01:03:46.213 --> 01:03:50.554 She grew up in I believe a village in Soweto. 1346 01:03:50.554 --> 01:03:52.646 Not Soweta, in the part of Africa 1347 01:03:52.646 --> 01:03:56.605 which was an apartheid place for African people. 1348 01:03:56.605 --> 01:03:58.794 And she grew up running barefoot 1349 01:03:59.731 --> 01:04:00.951 through her entire childhood 1350 01:04:00.951 --> 01:04:03.803 because the family couldn't afford shoes. 1351 01:04:03.803 --> 01:04:06.221 Had internal testes, we think. 1352 01:04:06.221 --> 01:04:08.159 We do not know. 1353 01:04:08.159 --> 01:04:10.539 Broad shoulders, narrow hips. 1354 01:04:10.539 --> 01:04:12.904 She has a muscular, flat chest. 1355 01:04:12.904 --> 01:04:14.168 Signifiers. 1356 01:04:15.005 --> 01:04:17.553 A baritone, gruff voice. 1357 01:04:17.553 --> 01:04:21.499 Now all of this came out in these reports about this, 1358 01:04:21.499 --> 01:04:23.856 then in her late teens runner, 1359 01:04:23.856 --> 01:04:26.654 who had just won an international race 1360 01:04:26.654 --> 01:04:29.336 with the fastest time in the year. 1361 01:04:29.336 --> 01:04:33.852 800 meters, the fastest time that year in the world. 1362 01:04:33.852 --> 01:04:37.671 And there are three questions for you to think about then. 1363 01:04:37.671 --> 01:04:39.220 Is Caster a woman? 1364 01:04:40.514 --> 01:04:42.592 You don't have to vote, you can just think about it. 1365 01:04:42.592 --> 01:04:43.451 Should she have been permitted to run 1366 01:04:43.451 --> 01:04:45.652 in the Olympics as a woman? 1367 01:04:46.841 --> 01:04:48.397 And should health insurance be expected 1368 01:04:48.397 --> 01:04:50.301 to cover treatments specific 1369 01:04:50.301 --> 01:04:52.577 to transgendered and intersex people? 1370 01:04:52.577 --> 01:04:54.120 And this last question is actually 1371 01:04:54.120 --> 01:04:55.514 more directed to the medical sttudents 1372 01:04:55.514 --> 01:04:57.440 and the residents that I teach. 1373 01:04:57.440 --> 01:04:59.031 Trying to raise some awareness about this 1374 01:04:59.031 --> 01:05:00.377 because as I've already told you, 1375 01:05:00.377 --> 01:05:03.315 I had to appeal a decision for one of my patients 1376 01:05:03.315 --> 01:05:05.724 to get the treatment they needed. 1377 01:05:06.774 --> 01:05:09.816 So in the Olympics there's been sex gender confusion. 1378 01:05:09.816 --> 01:05:12.509 Actually mostly only in the modern games. 1379 01:05:12.509 --> 01:05:14.715 It really wasn't a problem in the ancient games 1380 01:05:14.715 --> 01:05:17.048 because there were no fig leaves. 1381 01:05:17.048 --> 01:05:17.918 (audience laughs) 1382 01:05:17.918 --> 01:05:19.340 And the way that you knew 1383 01:05:19.340 --> 01:05:21.743 that you were dealing with men, 1384 01:05:21.743 --> 01:05:24.586 primarily in the ancient games is because 1385 01:05:24.586 --> 01:05:27.407 they had their parts out there for all to view. 1386 01:05:28.271 --> 01:05:29.763 Okay, I don't mean to be, 1387 01:05:29.763 --> 01:05:31.446 well, I do mean to be a little funny about that. 1388 01:05:31.446 --> 01:05:33.814 But I permit you to laugh on this serious topic. 1389 01:05:34.941 --> 01:05:36.573 Actually it's sort of funny. 1390 01:05:36.573 --> 01:05:38.874 In the Victoria and Albert Museum, 1391 01:05:38.874 --> 01:05:40.673 there is a picture of, 1392 01:05:40.673 --> 01:05:43.796 there's a statue not unlike David. 1393 01:05:43.796 --> 01:05:48.672 And that central fig leaf there, 1394 01:05:48.672 --> 01:05:51.110 was created in the Victorian era 1395 01:05:51.110 --> 01:05:52.851 so that when the queen came to the museum, 1396 01:05:52.851 --> 01:05:54.593 they could cover up the private parts 1397 01:05:54.593 --> 01:05:58.354 with a piece of plaster so she would not be offended. 1398 01:05:58.354 --> 01:06:01.256 And then when the queen had left they could remove it. 1399 01:06:01.256 --> 01:06:03.635 From what I've heard of Victoria and Albert's sex life, 1400 01:06:03.635 --> 01:06:05.250 that was not necessary. 1401 01:06:05.250 --> 01:06:08.849 (audience laughs) 1402 01:06:08.849 --> 01:06:10.816 The modern games started in 1896. 1403 01:06:10.816 --> 01:06:12.836 Women entered the modern games in 1912. 1404 01:06:12.836 --> 01:06:14.797 And it's been a really sad history ever since 1405 01:06:14.797 --> 01:06:17.862 of trying to establish who's a woman and who's a man. 1406 01:06:17.862 --> 01:06:19.441 And the big concern was 1407 01:06:19.441 --> 01:06:22.517 that somehow men would fake being women for advantage. 1408 01:06:22.517 --> 01:06:24.363 There's never been a case of a man 1409 01:06:24.363 --> 01:06:25.896 who faked being a woman for advantage 1410 01:06:25.896 --> 01:06:28.252 that has been actually proven. 1411 01:06:28.252 --> 01:06:30.840 There have been some allegations, but no proof. 1412 01:06:31.920 --> 01:06:34.490 And the history really is very, very sad. 1413 01:06:34.490 --> 01:06:38.646 In the 1930s, you all know who Stella and Helen are? 1414 01:06:38.646 --> 01:06:42.408 Stella and Helen were American runners. 1415 01:06:42.408 --> 01:06:46.668 And they both looked a little masculine. 1416 01:06:46.668 --> 01:06:50.429 So Helen accused Stella of being a man. 1417 01:06:50.429 --> 01:06:53.610 And at that time what happened then was 1418 01:06:53.610 --> 01:06:56.745 that you examined, and this is still the case, 1419 01:06:56.745 --> 01:06:58.184 you have to make an accusation, and then, 1420 01:06:58.184 --> 01:07:00.146 so Stella got examined and Stella was found 1421 01:07:00.146 --> 01:07:02.724 to in fact be a woman. 1422 01:07:02.724 --> 01:07:05.300 Well, Helen was not examined. 1423 01:07:05.300 --> 01:07:08.714 But several decades later she died in the crossfire 1424 01:07:10.624 --> 01:07:13.079 of a bank robbery and at the autopsy 1425 01:07:13.079 --> 01:07:15.680 they found that she had ambiguous genitalia. 1426 01:07:15.680 --> 01:07:17.479 So since I am talking to a bunch of people 1427 01:07:17.479 --> 01:07:20.300 who are therapists, the power of projection 1428 01:07:20.300 --> 01:07:21.704 shows up quite profoundly I think 1429 01:07:21.704 --> 01:07:23.787 in the Stella versus Helen story. 1430 01:07:23.787 --> 01:07:26.887 In the 1960s women were forced to parade nude 1431 01:07:26.887 --> 01:07:28.907 in front of judges, largely men, 1432 01:07:28.907 --> 01:07:31.089 to determine that they had the proper parts. 1433 01:07:31.089 --> 01:07:32.587 That's sort of a modern version with women 1434 01:07:32.587 --> 01:07:34.792 of the ancient version with men 1435 01:07:34.792 --> 01:07:36.894 of if you had the right parts, 1436 01:07:36.894 --> 01:07:38.325 you were allowed to compete as a woman. 1437 01:07:38.325 --> 01:07:39.162 Or in the case of the women, 1438 01:07:39.162 --> 01:07:40.497 if you didn't have the wrong parts, 1439 01:07:40.497 --> 01:07:43.387 you were allowed to compete as a woman. 1440 01:07:43.387 --> 01:07:44.978 In the 1960s through 1990s, 1441 01:07:44.978 --> 01:07:46.638 there were a variety of lab tests. 1442 01:07:46.638 --> 01:07:47.683 And as I've already sort of hinted 1443 01:07:47.683 --> 01:07:48.937 to you with all these diagnoses, 1444 01:07:48.937 --> 01:07:51.634 lab tests are extraordinarily unreliable. 1445 01:07:51.634 --> 01:07:53.816 The sensitivity is low, the specificity is low, 1446 01:07:53.816 --> 01:07:55.638 they're fairly worthless. 1447 01:07:55.638 --> 01:07:57.578 So we had Barr bodies, they didn't work very well. 1448 01:07:57.578 --> 01:08:00.376 We had SRY genes, they didn't work very well. 1449 01:08:00.376 --> 01:08:01.316 Because of this problem 1450 01:08:01.316 --> 01:08:02.918 that there were too many examples 1451 01:08:02.918 --> 01:08:04.613 of people who had missing Barr bodies, 1452 01:08:04.613 --> 01:08:06.400 or had Barr bodies that are whatever, 1453 01:08:06.400 --> 01:08:08.270 and they turned out to not have 1454 01:08:08.270 --> 01:08:10.696 the diagnosis they were supposed to have. 1455 01:08:10.696 --> 01:08:12.971 At this point, all this has gone out the window 1456 01:08:12.971 --> 01:08:15.014 for a panel of experts. 1457 01:08:15.014 --> 01:08:18.056 And the panel of experts convenes from multiple disciplines, 1458 01:08:18.056 --> 01:08:20.668 ranging from psychology to anatomy to endocrinology, 1459 01:08:20.668 --> 01:08:22.838 and they all decide whether the person 1460 01:08:22.838 --> 01:08:27.157 who's been challenged is a man or a woman. 1461 01:08:27.157 --> 01:08:27.730 Do you like that? 1462 01:08:27.730 --> 01:08:29.228 Would you like to be on that panel? 1463 01:08:29.228 --> 01:08:30.191 (audience chatter) 1464 01:08:30.191 --> 01:08:32.083 Scares me. 1465 01:08:32.083 --> 01:08:33.598 So anatomy, physiology, genetics, 1466 01:08:33.598 --> 01:08:34.910 endocrinology, and psychology 1467 01:08:34.910 --> 01:08:36.570 are all represented on this panel 1468 01:08:36.570 --> 01:08:39.797 to decide that athlete's fate. 1469 01:08:39.797 --> 01:08:43.489 So, back to that question. 1470 01:08:43.489 --> 01:08:44.403 Are we looking at a man? 1471 01:08:44.403 --> 01:08:45.250 Are we looking at a woman? 1472 01:08:45.250 --> 01:08:47.965 Are we looking at a person who's neither a man nor a woman? 1473 01:08:48.818 --> 01:08:50.669 Think about it. 1474 01:08:54.111 --> 01:08:56.230 Two more pictures of Caster. 1475 01:08:57.176 --> 01:09:00.380 Again, on the left, 1476 01:09:00.380 --> 01:09:03.161 that picture is from the time when she won that world race. 1477 01:09:04.639 --> 01:09:08.697 And after she was accused of being a man by her colleagues, 1478 01:09:08.697 --> 01:09:11.239 she went home to South Africa, 1479 01:09:11.239 --> 01:09:12.539 which was determined to prove to the world 1480 01:09:12.539 --> 01:09:14.177 that she was actually a woman. 1481 01:09:14.177 --> 01:09:15.791 So for the first time in her life, 1482 01:09:15.791 --> 01:09:17.033 she was dressed up in a dress, 1483 01:09:17.033 --> 01:09:18.054 makeup was put on her face, 1484 01:09:18.054 --> 01:09:19.157 and she was put in high heels, 1485 01:09:19.157 --> 01:09:20.875 which hurt her feet very much. 1486 01:09:20.875 --> 01:09:22.350 Put on the cover of a magazine 1487 01:09:22.350 --> 01:09:24.555 as sort of a glam person, 1488 01:09:24.555 --> 01:09:27.283 to sort of prove that she really was a woman. 1489 01:09:28.500 --> 01:09:29.517 I don't know quite what to think of this, 1490 01:09:29.517 --> 01:09:31.932 except I think it's fairly appalling. 1491 01:09:31.932 --> 01:09:33.290 But it's right there with the gay Mormons 1492 01:09:33.290 --> 01:09:36.354 and the people with one strap gowns at the bottom. 1493 01:09:37.191 --> 01:09:38.954 So what's your assessment? 1494 01:09:40.091 --> 01:09:41.026 What are you thinking? 1495 01:09:41.026 --> 01:09:42.431 Again, I won't take a poll, 1496 01:09:42.431 --> 01:09:46.516 but this was quite a challenging situation. 1497 01:09:47.434 --> 01:09:48.889 Oh, my daughter added that. 1498 01:09:48.889 --> 01:09:50.328 (audience laughs) 1499 01:09:50.328 --> 01:09:53.347 My daughter is very clever with things that I can't do. 1500 01:09:53.347 --> 01:09:54.543 Now I put this picture up here 1501 01:09:54.543 --> 01:09:56.203 because one of these women is the one 1502 01:09:56.203 --> 01:09:59.407 who accused Caster Semenya of being a man. 1503 01:09:59.407 --> 01:10:03.365 And to my eye, they all look fairly gender atypical. 1504 01:10:03.365 --> 01:10:06.449 I mean, it's sorta the kettle calling the pot black. 1505 01:10:06.449 --> 01:10:07.306 I think. 1506 01:10:07.306 --> 01:10:08.072 I don't know if you'd agree, 1507 01:10:08.072 --> 01:10:09.953 but I think that these women 1508 01:10:09.953 --> 01:10:12.797 have remarkable muscular definition. 1509 01:10:12.797 --> 01:10:16.145 Remarkably low measures of body fat. 1510 01:10:16.145 --> 01:10:19.186 And are remarkably slender. 1511 01:10:19.186 --> 01:10:23.145 Interesting that she was selected out. 1512 01:10:23.145 --> 01:10:24.166 You might also wonder, of course, 1513 01:10:24.166 --> 01:10:27.574 about the racial issues involved with that. 1514 01:10:28.880 --> 01:10:31.220 So a woman among woman, or what? 1515 01:10:32.198 --> 01:10:33.930 Now again, I think in the culture right now 1516 01:10:33.930 --> 01:10:35.509 there's really a great confusion 1517 01:10:35.509 --> 01:10:38.168 about what a man looks like and what a woman looks like. 1518 01:10:38.168 --> 01:10:39.549 Maybe that's a good thing. 1519 01:10:39.549 --> 01:10:41.151 But you just pick up any, 1520 01:10:41.151 --> 01:10:42.533 you go to the airport and pick up all these magazines, 1521 01:10:42.533 --> 01:10:43.914 and everybody's got six packs. 1522 01:10:43.914 --> 01:10:45.249 Men, women, whatever. 1523 01:10:45.249 --> 01:10:48.430 I guess the bikini means the person on the right is a woman. 1524 01:10:48.430 --> 01:10:49.707 And the fact that the person on the left 1525 01:10:49.707 --> 01:10:51.796 doesn't have a bikini means they're a man. 1526 01:10:51.796 --> 01:10:53.132 (audience laughs) 1527 01:10:53.132 --> 01:10:56.702 If you have a better strategy, let me know. (laughs) 1528 01:10:58.449 --> 01:11:00.956 This is LeAnn Rimes, the singer. 1529 01:11:00.956 --> 01:11:03.173 How working out saved her. 1530 01:11:03.173 --> 01:11:05.355 She's since gone on to talk about her depression, 1531 01:11:05.355 --> 01:11:07.411 but here she had very impressive 1532 01:11:07.411 --> 01:11:10.644 muscular development as a woman. 1533 01:11:12.274 --> 01:11:15.059 So, which is the real Caster Semenya? 1534 01:11:16.152 --> 01:11:17.166 These two pictures are up there. 1535 01:11:17.166 --> 01:11:18.269 I think I've tried to make the case 1536 01:11:18.269 --> 01:11:21.240 that the person on the left is the real Caster Semenya. 1537 01:11:21.240 --> 01:11:22.761 And the person on the right is an attempt 1538 01:11:22.761 --> 01:11:26.545 to pander to societal, sociocultural stereotypes. 1539 01:11:27.432 --> 01:11:30.717 And maybe Caster Semenya does like dressing that way, 1540 01:11:30.717 --> 01:11:32.737 but it is ironic that she didn't have to do it 1541 01:11:32.737 --> 01:11:35.531 until she became a world figure. 1542 01:11:37.312 --> 01:11:38.647 South Africa was very much determined 1543 01:11:38.647 --> 01:11:42.200 to have her be allowed to run as a woman. 1544 01:11:42.200 --> 01:11:44.847 Now, by the way, 1545 01:11:45.926 --> 01:11:47.035 the end of the story was 1546 01:11:47.035 --> 01:11:48.719 that after I think something like 10 months, 1547 01:11:48.719 --> 01:11:52.399 that panel of experts decided she was in fact a woman. 1548 01:11:52.399 --> 01:11:54.500 They didn't tell anybody why she was a woman. 1549 01:11:54.500 --> 01:11:56.715 Which is actually very good for her privacy, 1550 01:11:56.715 --> 01:11:59.493 but which is not very good for our education. 1551 01:11:59.493 --> 01:12:01.901 And she went on in the 2012 Olympics 1552 01:12:01.901 --> 01:12:05.116 to earn a silver medal in the 800 meter race. 1553 01:12:05.116 --> 01:12:08.541 So one of those people who was a woman, 1554 01:12:08.541 --> 01:12:11.515 but not challenged, beat her, for what that's worth. 1555 01:12:11.515 --> 01:12:14.812 And by the way, that time that she had was remarkable, 1556 01:12:14.812 --> 01:12:17.691 but it was not by any means the lowest ever for a woman. 1557 01:12:17.691 --> 01:12:19.235 So once again you've got to wonder 1558 01:12:19.235 --> 01:12:21.358 about why she was singled out. 1559 01:12:22.311 --> 01:12:25.314 So we have a final clip from my patient. 1560 01:12:26.352 --> 01:12:28.120 How could your parents have done it differently 1561 01:12:28.120 --> 01:12:31.928 if they had told you earlier that, about this, 1562 01:12:31.928 --> 01:12:35.277 what would that have freed you up to be here to do? 1563 01:12:36.223 --> 01:12:39.625 - Well, I've done a lot of reading, 1564 01:12:39.625 --> 01:12:44.060 and I know that a lot of people advocate now 1565 01:12:44.060 --> 01:12:48.868 to take children and if possible 1566 01:12:49.929 --> 01:12:53.721 let them interact with other intersexed children, 1567 01:12:53.721 --> 01:12:56.497 or at least get them into 1568 01:12:56.497 --> 01:12:59.318 some kind of a counseling situation. 1569 01:12:59.318 --> 01:13:02.161 Obviously a young child can't necessarily 1570 01:13:02.161 --> 01:13:04.503 understand the issues of intersex, 1571 01:13:04.503 --> 01:13:09.427 but to help them at least feel positive about who they are. 1572 01:13:11.944 --> 01:13:13.833 It would have been a really nice thing 1573 01:13:13.833 --> 01:13:16.337 if my parents would have done that. 1574 01:13:16.337 --> 01:13:20.934 As a child I was dragged to the doctor frequently 1575 01:13:20.934 --> 01:13:24.208 for what I can only tell was deciding 1576 01:13:24.208 --> 01:13:27.134 how my bone growth rate was going. 1577 01:13:27.134 --> 01:13:28.527 But here I was a little child, 1578 01:13:28.527 --> 01:13:30.474 I'd be taken into these huge conference rooms 1579 01:13:30.474 --> 01:13:33.178 with all these doctors in their white coats, 1580 01:13:33.178 --> 01:13:34.931 and no one told me anything. 1581 01:13:34.931 --> 01:13:37.752 They'd just kinda look at me and measure my wrist, 1582 01:13:37.752 --> 01:13:40.625 and then I'd be taken out again. 1583 01:13:40.625 --> 01:13:44.261 It was like, that was really scary as a child. 1584 01:13:44.261 --> 01:13:46.698 And no explanation whatsoever. 1585 01:13:46.698 --> 01:13:51.488 And I never asked the questions either. 1586 01:13:54.836 --> 01:13:56.322 - [John] Well, how could a person in your situation 1587 01:13:56.322 --> 01:13:57.877 know what questions to ask? 1588 01:13:58.919 --> 01:14:00.251 Is that even possible? 1589 01:14:00.251 --> 01:14:03.261 - I think that's a good point because 1590 01:14:04.465 --> 01:14:06.412 you have nothing to base it on. 1591 01:14:06.412 --> 01:14:08.154 You have nothing to base. 1592 01:14:08.154 --> 01:14:13.053 You know if, without intervention of a professional, 1593 01:14:13.053 --> 01:14:17.877 I would not have known what questions to ask at all. 1594 01:14:19.867 --> 01:14:22.671 - [John] So at this point, what are the questions to ask? 1595 01:14:25.405 --> 01:14:27.617 - That's a good question. (laughs) 1596 01:14:31.441 --> 01:14:32.852 I guess 1597 01:14:37.048 --> 01:14:40.044 the questions that I have is basically 1598 01:14:40.044 --> 01:14:44.201 how to fit into the world that I live in. 1599 01:14:45.287 --> 01:14:46.969 The people I come in contact every day 1600 01:14:46.969 --> 01:14:49.679 know nothing about intersexuality. 1601 01:14:50.950 --> 01:14:53.558 If I were to come on and say, "I'm intersex," 1602 01:14:53.558 --> 01:14:55.625 they'd probably look at me like, what? 1603 01:14:55.625 --> 01:14:58.167 Or use the term hermaphrodite. 1604 01:14:58.167 --> 01:14:59.769 You know. 1605 01:14:59.769 --> 01:15:02.045 I think their interpretation of hermaphrodite 1606 01:15:02.045 --> 01:15:05.469 is somebody that's got a six inch penis and a vagina, 1607 01:15:05.469 --> 01:15:07.130 and can have sex with themselves. 1608 01:15:07.130 --> 01:15:08.244 (audience laughs) 1609 01:15:08.244 --> 01:15:09.663 You know, I don't think that they 1610 01:15:10.588 --> 01:15:15.285 understand exactly what it means to be intersex. 1611 01:15:15.285 --> 01:15:19.754 To have part of you look one way, 1612 01:15:19.754 --> 01:15:24.226 and yet for me, my brains works another way. 1613 01:15:25.188 --> 01:15:27.043 It's quite difficult. 1614 01:15:27.043 --> 01:15:29.243 - So I will intend it to end with the idea 1615 01:15:29.243 --> 01:15:33.417 that it, in fact, is quite difficult, challenging. 1616 01:15:34.490 --> 01:15:36.591 So I'm not sure what's supposed to happen now. 1617 01:15:36.591 --> 01:15:38.971 - [Voiceover] Take some questions for a bit? 1618 01:15:38.971 --> 01:15:40.123 - Okay. 1619 01:15:41.041 --> 01:15:42.164 - [Voiceover] You could clap now. 1620 01:15:42.164 --> 01:15:46.953 (applause) 1621 01:15:53.158 --> 01:15:55.515 - You can see why he's a Day-Garrett professor. 1622 01:15:55.515 --> 01:15:56.803 (audience laughs) 1623 01:15:56.803 --> 01:15:57.720 - [Voiceover] Thanks. 1624 01:15:57.720 --> 01:15:58.994 - You're welcome. 1625 01:15:58.994 --> 01:16:00.707 I welcome any questions. 1626 01:16:06.504 --> 01:16:11.026 (audience member mutters) 1627 01:16:22.374 --> 01:16:23.829 Well, actually that's a great question, 1628 01:16:23.829 --> 01:16:24.909 and I can give you an example 1629 01:16:24.909 --> 01:16:28.781 that is really quite challenging. 1630 01:16:31.069 --> 01:16:34.236 A person who has manic depressive illness in his 20s, 1631 01:16:34.236 --> 01:16:38.509 who is Somalian, in my community, 1632 01:16:39.480 --> 01:16:40.723 speaks four languages because 1633 01:16:40.723 --> 01:16:45.723 of the multiple relocations that went on in his childhood. 1634 01:16:46.951 --> 01:16:49.947 Ends up in the U.S. with bad bipolar illness. 1635 01:16:49.947 --> 01:16:52.596 Three hospitalizations in the last six months, 1636 01:16:52.596 --> 01:16:54.139 and I'm asked to comment 1637 01:16:54.139 --> 01:16:58.012 on whether this person is transgendered. 1638 01:16:59.038 --> 01:17:01.082 Now as I talk with him, 1639 01:17:01.082 --> 01:17:04.059 they are living in a community that, 1640 01:17:06.011 --> 01:17:07.858 a small town with a small Muslim community, 1641 01:17:07.858 --> 01:17:11.433 with a very, very conservative mullah, 1642 01:17:11.433 --> 01:17:13.314 who has absolutely condemned 1643 01:17:13.314 --> 01:17:15.656 anything related to homosexuality. 1644 01:17:16.702 --> 01:17:19.806 So this person is being abused in their community 1645 01:17:19.806 --> 01:17:23.242 by other men of the community for being different. 1646 01:17:23.242 --> 01:17:26.167 They have found their way as a cosmetologist, 1647 01:17:26.167 --> 01:17:29.024 and are allowed, up to a point, to interact with women 1648 01:17:29.024 --> 01:17:30.927 doing their hair, doing their makeup and such, 1649 01:17:30.927 --> 01:17:32.726 but at some point it becomes uncomfortable 1650 01:17:32.726 --> 01:17:35.281 because they're a man. 1651 01:17:35.281 --> 01:17:38.659 They come wanting, they've been suicidal 1652 01:17:38.659 --> 01:17:41.457 and psychotic three times in the last six months, 1653 01:17:41.457 --> 01:17:46.077 to talk about having surgery to become a woman. 1654 01:17:46.077 --> 01:17:49.061 Now complicating matters further of course, 1655 01:17:49.061 --> 01:17:51.696 is in Iran right now it's not okay to be gay, 1656 01:17:51.696 --> 01:17:54.842 but it is okay to be transsexual. 1657 01:17:54.842 --> 01:17:56.456 That is you can have an operation 1658 01:17:56.456 --> 01:17:58.359 if you're a gay man to become a woman 1659 01:17:58.359 --> 01:18:00.658 because that's believed to be a disease, 1660 01:18:00.658 --> 01:18:04.257 but homosexuality is believed to be a sin. 1661 01:18:04.257 --> 01:18:09.132 So there's an example of a very complicated mix of things. 1662 01:18:09.132 --> 01:18:12.386 What I said was you have to get your bipolar illness 1663 01:18:12.386 --> 01:18:13.907 under control because this person 1664 01:18:13.907 --> 01:18:16.031 was not compliant with care 1665 01:18:16.031 --> 01:18:18.504 before we can even begin to deal with this. 1666 01:18:18.504 --> 01:18:21.309 And we have to be able to talk about 1667 01:18:21.309 --> 01:18:23.150 whether the issue here is that you are 1668 01:18:23.150 --> 01:18:24.810 completely unaccepted by your culture 1669 01:18:24.810 --> 01:18:27.155 and feel condemned by Allah, 1670 01:18:27.155 --> 01:18:29.897 or whether you really are in fact 1671 01:18:29.897 --> 01:18:33.693 someone who is a woman born in a man's body. 1672 01:18:34.676 --> 01:18:37.055 So there's an example that I think 1673 01:18:37.055 --> 01:18:39.493 cuts across many of the things we've talked about, 1674 01:18:39.493 --> 01:18:41.607 and illustrates how challenging it is 1675 01:18:41.607 --> 01:18:44.555 to come up with an answer. 1676 01:18:44.555 --> 01:18:47.446 Partly as well because depending on 1677 01:18:47.446 --> 01:18:49.372 which culture you're dealing with, 1678 01:18:49.372 --> 01:18:51.370 attitudes about masculinity and femininity 1679 01:18:51.370 --> 01:18:53.273 are more or less fluid. 1680 01:18:53.273 --> 01:18:55.752 And things can happen to you because 1681 01:18:56.651 --> 01:18:57.708 you're in the wrong culture. 1682 01:18:57.708 --> 01:19:02.169 In this case, in African, Islamic culture, 1683 01:19:03.540 --> 01:19:05.440 transplanted to the U.S. 1684 01:19:06.560 --> 01:19:08.436 I don't know if that's a, that's like, kinda like, 1685 01:19:08.436 --> 01:19:11.051 it gives you an idea of the complexity, yeah. 1686 01:19:13.172 --> 01:19:15.114 Other questions? 1687 01:19:17.649 --> 01:19:19.821 Have I stunned you all into silence? 1688 01:19:19.821 --> 01:19:21.498 (audience laughs) Ma'am? 1689 01:19:21.498 --> 01:19:23.384 - [Voiceover] How is your client in that video? 1690 01:19:23.384 --> 01:19:24.739 - My client now. 1691 01:19:25.748 --> 01:19:27.948 My client now interestingly ended up 1692 01:19:27.948 --> 01:19:32.034 in this very small, fundamentalist Christian church, 1693 01:19:32.034 --> 01:19:35.030 in which the pastor said, "I don't know what to do with you. 1694 01:19:35.030 --> 01:19:36.945 "The scripture does not advise us. 1695 01:19:36.945 --> 01:19:38.663 "You can either be a celibate for God, 1696 01:19:38.663 --> 01:19:40.823 "or you can marry a man." 1697 01:19:40.823 --> 01:19:42.785 Which wasn't a very good answer. 1698 01:19:44.101 --> 01:19:45.422 What my patient decided to do 1699 01:19:45.422 --> 01:19:49.263 was actually to take her 90-year-old mother in 1700 01:19:49.263 --> 01:19:52.062 and help her in her waning years. 1701 01:19:52.062 --> 01:19:54.500 And decided for now to be celibate. 1702 01:19:54.500 --> 01:19:57.402 But because of her Christian beliefs, 1703 01:19:57.402 --> 01:20:00.536 but also because she at least now understood 1704 01:20:00.536 --> 01:20:04.402 why she felt so confused and no longer feels confused. 1705 01:20:04.402 --> 01:20:06.677 That is she has now adopted an identity 1706 01:20:06.677 --> 01:20:10.821 as an intersexed person with a mosaic set of chromosomes 1707 01:20:10.821 --> 01:20:14.256 that explain this sense of discordancy inside of herself. 1708 01:20:15.370 --> 01:20:17.849 Again, not somebody I could ever have found to be crazy, 1709 01:20:17.849 --> 01:20:20.565 although I did treat her with Sertraline 1710 01:20:20.565 --> 01:20:23.915 for her depression (laughs), which helped. 1711 01:20:26.370 --> 01:20:27.426 I want to emphasize too, 1712 01:20:27.426 --> 01:20:29.272 I've probably treated about 25 people, 1713 01:20:29.272 --> 01:20:32.767 which makes me some kind of national expert at least. 1714 01:20:32.767 --> 01:20:33.927 It's a little bit astounding really, 1715 01:20:33.927 --> 01:20:35.704 but I think the challenge 1716 01:20:35.704 --> 01:20:37.886 with working with folks who present 1717 01:20:37.886 --> 01:20:40.846 with these sorts of issues is listening. 1718 01:20:40.846 --> 01:20:42.588 And trying to help with a narrative, 1719 01:20:42.588 --> 01:20:46.383 and a story, and a solution that will work for them. 1720 01:20:47.652 --> 01:20:48.730 I don't have an answer to each 1721 01:20:48.730 --> 01:20:51.006 one of these questions at all. 1722 01:20:51.006 --> 01:20:53.629 It's varying, with younger kids now it's much easier 1723 01:20:53.629 --> 01:20:58.065 because they're not so self-hating. 1724 01:20:58.065 --> 01:21:00.786 Although I did just see a patient this week, 1725 01:21:02.176 --> 01:21:04.218 a married man with a child 1726 01:21:04.218 --> 01:21:05.901 who has made the transition on the 1727 01:21:05.901 --> 01:21:07.980 4th of July of this year. 1728 01:21:07.980 --> 01:21:09.919 And nothing happened. 1729 01:21:09.919 --> 01:21:11.834 Nobody got upset, nobody got excited. 1730 01:21:11.834 --> 01:21:13.261 They just accepted this person 1731 01:21:13.261 --> 01:21:16.082 as the woman that he is, she is. 1732 01:21:16.082 --> 01:21:17.534 And so she came to see me 1733 01:21:17.534 --> 01:21:20.041 to talk about how much she hates herself 1734 01:21:20.041 --> 01:21:22.491 for being the way that she is. 1735 01:21:22.491 --> 01:21:24.256 So (laughs) you know, the issues change. 1736 01:21:24.256 --> 01:21:25.834 And what she said was, "I've been so busy 1737 01:21:25.834 --> 01:21:28.574 "making the transition that I didn't have to face 1738 01:21:28.574 --> 01:21:29.990 "the part of me that really hates 1739 01:21:29.990 --> 01:21:31.651 "what I'm putting my family through, 1740 01:21:31.651 --> 01:21:34.158 "and hates that I'm not normal." 1741 01:21:34.158 --> 01:21:35.957 So the work is moving on now to, 1742 01:21:35.957 --> 01:21:37.397 I'm actually gonna put this person 1743 01:21:37.397 --> 01:21:39.417 into a group, a mixed group. 1744 01:21:39.417 --> 01:21:40.798 I've treated several people now 1745 01:21:40.798 --> 01:21:42.040 in Rochester, Minnesota, 1746 01:21:42.040 --> 01:21:45.646 where we do not have a transgendered community of any size. 1747 01:21:47.569 --> 01:21:48.678 By putting them into my regular group, 1748 01:21:48.678 --> 01:21:51.765 where people actually tell them they're okay. 1749 01:21:51.765 --> 01:21:53.959 And so then that seems to really help. 1750 01:21:55.040 --> 01:21:57.001 People you wouldn't expect, by the way. 1751 01:21:59.054 --> 01:22:00.300 - [Voiceover] Could you explain a little bit more 1752 01:22:00.300 --> 01:22:03.295 about moving forward, how different 1753 01:22:03.295 --> 01:22:06.394 ethnic organizations are going to be doing 1754 01:22:06.394 --> 01:22:08.832 groups with people and certain, 1755 01:22:08.832 --> 01:22:10.597 Caster Semenya (mutters), 1756 01:22:10.597 --> 01:22:12.303 only time this is going to happen 1757 01:22:12.303 --> 01:22:15.275 with the Olympic Committee (mutters) 1758 01:22:15.275 --> 01:22:17.663 inclusion for (mutters). 1759 01:22:17.663 --> 01:22:20.426 - Well, it's a great question. 1760 01:22:20.426 --> 01:22:21.343 My understanding of where we are 1761 01:22:21.343 --> 01:22:22.968 is with that panel of experts 1762 01:22:22.968 --> 01:22:25.487 who will consider each case individually. 1763 01:22:25.487 --> 01:22:27.705 The standard, there have been Olympics 1764 01:22:27.705 --> 01:22:30.108 in which they've tested everybody, all the women, 1765 01:22:30.108 --> 01:22:32.546 and found any number of people, 1766 01:22:32.546 --> 01:22:35.447 a dozen or more who had chromosomal abnormalities, 1767 01:22:35.447 --> 01:22:37.526 but nobody suspected them. 1768 01:22:37.526 --> 01:22:39.977 There was a famous runner in the 1980s, 1769 01:22:41.491 --> 01:22:43.230 Jo-La Perez who turned out, 1770 01:22:43.230 --> 01:22:45.134 when she was accused to be a complete 1771 01:22:45.134 --> 01:22:47.315 androgen insensitivity, XY chromosomes. 1772 01:22:47.315 --> 01:22:50.334 It ruined her life, it ruined her marriage. 1773 01:22:50.334 --> 01:22:51.646 It ruined everything. 1774 01:22:51.646 --> 01:22:53.666 At this point it's about you accuse somebody, 1775 01:22:53.666 --> 01:22:57.010 and they get investigated. 1776 01:22:57.010 --> 01:22:58.275 It's not a great standard. 1777 01:22:58.275 --> 01:23:00.190 Obviously it's not a great standard. 1778 01:23:00.190 --> 01:23:01.491 In the case of Caster Semenya, 1779 01:23:01.491 --> 01:23:04.091 they did come up with I think a good answer. 1780 01:23:04.091 --> 01:23:05.275 But there's a whole lot of fussing 1781 01:23:05.275 --> 01:23:07.249 and bothering about your testosterone levels. 1782 01:23:07.249 --> 01:23:09.187 And what that means, and as I've pointed out, 1783 01:23:09.187 --> 01:23:11.253 you can have a testosterone level of a million, 1784 01:23:11.253 --> 01:23:12.508 but the receptors don't respond. 1785 01:23:12.508 --> 01:23:14.365 That doesn't do anything. 1786 01:23:14.365 --> 01:23:16.914 So we don't really have a good standard, we don't. 1787 01:23:18.354 --> 01:23:20.688 And really, it really is a witch hunt. 1788 01:23:20.688 --> 01:23:22.384 You point out that somebody looks strange, 1789 01:23:22.384 --> 01:23:23.962 and then they get investigated. 1790 01:23:23.962 --> 01:23:26.540 And maybe they get taken off the circuit for a while, 1791 01:23:26.540 --> 01:23:30.989 while a bunch of experts secretly sort out what's going on. 1792 01:23:30.989 --> 01:23:33.605 And that's why I made the comment that I think for her, 1793 01:23:33.605 --> 01:23:35.010 it would be nice to know what they decided 1794 01:23:35.010 --> 01:23:37.483 because it would help to set some precedent. 1795 01:23:37.483 --> 01:23:40.248 But for her privacy they didn't do that. 1796 01:23:40.248 --> 01:23:42.752 So we really don't know what she has, or what she is, 1797 01:23:42.752 --> 01:23:45.328 or what they came up with for an explanation 1798 01:23:45.328 --> 01:23:49.082 for this very gender atypical presentation. 1799 01:23:50.203 --> 01:23:52.126 So the answer really is that there is no standard 1800 01:23:52.126 --> 01:23:54.610 right now other than this panel of experts. 1801 01:23:54.610 --> 01:23:56.908 And I can tell you the state of the science is such 1802 01:23:56.908 --> 01:24:00.229 that there really isn't an obvious conclusion 1803 01:24:00.229 --> 01:24:02.457 that I think we could draw. 1804 01:24:04.570 --> 01:24:07.268 One other thing I probably, uh-huh, sure? 1805 01:24:07.268 --> 01:24:08.371 - [Voiceover] Can I ask with regard to 1806 01:24:08.371 --> 01:24:11.721 like your earlier point about a child 1807 01:24:11.721 --> 01:24:16.422 making the decision about identity (mutters). 1808 01:24:16.422 --> 01:24:19.901 Is there actually a clinical medical guideline involved? 1809 01:24:20.852 --> 01:24:22.965 - Well, I think there is increasingly consensus 1810 01:24:22.965 --> 01:24:25.031 that you should not do anything irrevocable 1811 01:24:25.031 --> 01:24:29.722 with a child until basically they're, almost an adult. 1812 01:24:29.722 --> 01:24:31.978 There are many examples of gender atypical boys, 1813 01:24:31.978 --> 01:24:36.412 for example, who may go so far as to present as girls, 1814 01:24:36.412 --> 01:24:39.593 but then in adult adolescence cast that off 1815 01:24:39.593 --> 01:24:41.922 and decide to present as men. 1816 01:24:44.175 --> 01:24:45.077 I think where we are right now 1817 01:24:45.077 --> 01:24:48.560 is let the child express themself as they are, 1818 01:24:48.560 --> 01:24:51.555 but see if that identity that they've adopted 1819 01:24:51.555 --> 01:24:54.723 is in fact going to be a permanent identity or not. 1820 01:24:55.758 --> 01:24:57.011 There's a woman named Dianne Berg 1821 01:24:57.011 --> 01:24:58.355 at the University of Minnesota, 1822 01:24:58.355 --> 01:25:01.663 which has a very important human sexuality center, 1823 01:25:01.663 --> 01:25:05.553 who works almost exclusively with children 1824 01:25:05.553 --> 01:25:06.876 who are gender atypical. 1825 01:25:06.876 --> 01:25:10.254 And again, trying to minimize the damage, 1826 01:25:10.254 --> 01:25:12.459 which this person spoke about. 1827 01:25:12.459 --> 01:25:13.958 That nobody told her anything. 1828 01:25:13.958 --> 01:25:15.235 Nobody exposed her to anything. 1829 01:25:15.235 --> 01:25:17.161 Nobody discussed anything. 1830 01:25:17.161 --> 01:25:18.799 But to not do anything irrevocable 1831 01:25:18.799 --> 01:25:21.736 until the child is ready essentially as an adult 1832 01:25:21.736 --> 01:25:25.915 with capacity to make that decision for themselves. 1833 01:25:25.915 --> 01:25:28.318 And again, if you read the popular press, 1834 01:25:28.318 --> 01:25:30.291 there was an article in People magazine two weeks ago 1835 01:25:30.291 --> 01:25:34.359 about a 12 year old who is well on her way to surgery. 1836 01:25:35.288 --> 01:25:36.852 But there are other examples 1837 01:25:38.016 --> 01:25:40.670 of children who present as girls for a long period of time 1838 01:25:40.670 --> 01:25:43.349 and then decide, I mean perhaps to be a gay man, 1839 01:25:43.349 --> 01:25:46.641 or to be just a man, but often a gay man. 1840 01:25:46.641 --> 01:25:49.183 A book by, written 25 years ago, 1841 01:25:49.183 --> 01:25:50.982 called The Sissy Boy Syndrome, 1842 01:25:50.982 --> 01:25:52.956 speaks to some of this from a different era, 1843 01:25:52.956 --> 01:25:55.852 by Richard Green, might be worth looking at. 1844 01:25:55.852 --> 01:25:57.326 But I think right now let's do no harm 1845 01:25:57.326 --> 01:26:00.449 by not doing anything like 1846 01:26:00.449 --> 01:26:04.264 fashioning genitals that you want this child to have. 1847 01:26:04.264 --> 01:26:07.198 And focusing much more on their interpersonal development, 1848 01:26:07.198 --> 01:26:10.146 on their brain, than on their parts. 1849 01:26:10.146 --> 01:26:11.342 You know, it seems to be a particular 1850 01:26:11.342 --> 01:26:15.382 American preoccupation with having the right parts. 1851 01:26:15.382 --> 01:26:16.512 The bigger the better if you're a man, 1852 01:26:16.512 --> 01:26:19.867 and I don't know, you know I'm going with that. 1853 01:26:19.867 --> 01:26:20.795 (audience laughs) 1854 01:26:20.795 --> 01:26:21.654 And in fact, ironically, 1855 01:26:21.654 --> 01:26:23.755 just because I think this story is amusing, 1856 01:26:23.755 --> 01:26:25.265 the person I showed you at the very beginning, 1857 01:26:25.265 --> 01:26:27.633 my very first patient, did go to Canada 1858 01:26:27.633 --> 01:26:31.952 and did have gender reassignment surgery. 1859 01:26:31.952 --> 01:26:34.610 And come back and said, "Yes, it went very, very well. 1860 01:26:34.610 --> 01:26:36.027 "They had a lot of tissue to work with 1861 01:26:36.027 --> 01:26:38.318 "because I was really big as a man." 1862 01:26:38.318 --> 01:26:39.433 Which I thought was very funny 1863 01:26:39.433 --> 01:26:41.093 because here was a woman (laughs) 1864 01:26:41.093 --> 01:26:43.612 coming and bragging like a guy might. 1865 01:26:43.612 --> 01:26:45.771 You know, some of that gender bending was going on. 1866 01:26:45.771 --> 01:26:46.379 (audience laughs) 1867 01:26:46.379 --> 01:26:48.143 And in fact, apparently it was a very successful surgery 1868 01:26:48.143 --> 01:26:49.456 for the very fact that there was 1869 01:26:49.456 --> 01:26:51.150 a lot of tissue to work with. 1870 01:26:52.241 --> 01:26:54.278 (laughter) 1871 01:26:54.278 --> 01:26:56.855 And I hope it's okay to enjoy what I do 1872 01:26:56.855 --> 01:26:59.653 because the stories are so amazing. (laughs) 1873 01:26:59.653 --> 01:27:01.591 I mean I try to hear them with humility 1874 01:27:01.591 --> 01:27:05.356 and with interest and that seems to work pretty well. 1875 01:27:06.293 --> 01:27:07.210 Um-hmm? 1876 01:27:08.376 --> 01:27:10.431 - [Voiceover] Thank you. 1877 01:27:10.431 --> 01:27:12.439 I feel that you've moved on the one end 1878 01:27:12.439 --> 01:27:14.111 to the questions that are coming 1879 01:27:14.111 --> 01:27:17.038 (mutters) what Caster is (mutters) 1880 01:27:17.038 --> 01:27:20.532 and I (mutters). 1881 01:27:20.532 --> 01:27:21.663 I don't know what (mutters). 1882 01:27:21.663 --> 01:27:24.806 If she prefers or what program you prefer, 1883 01:27:24.806 --> 01:27:26.919 but you know, for me the answer is very clear 1884 01:27:26.919 --> 01:27:31.218 that she is whatever (muttters), 1885 01:27:31.218 --> 01:27:33.407 and I think that that's really (mutters). 1886 01:27:33.407 --> 01:27:34.173 That's something that I thought 1887 01:27:34.173 --> 01:27:36.054 maybe I wanted you to say in response 1888 01:27:36.054 --> 01:27:38.829 (mutters) and with that, 1889 01:27:38.829 --> 01:27:42.973 I'm wondering, given that you've prevented 1890 01:27:42.973 --> 01:27:46.409 some bias (mutters) you're coming from has 1891 01:27:46.409 --> 01:27:48.870 in your own area and a male psychiatrist 1892 01:27:48.870 --> 01:27:51.912 and how you would answer those 1893 01:27:51.912 --> 01:27:55.905 particular identity (mutters). 1894 01:27:55.905 --> 01:27:58.616 That while sort of the scientific world 1895 01:27:58.616 --> 01:28:03.155 as you presented doesn't have a good answer, 1896 01:28:03.155 --> 01:28:04.865 or a (mutters) answer, 1897 01:28:04.865 --> 01:28:06.502 where we also know that 1898 01:28:06.502 --> 01:28:08.105 the implications of (mutters) 1899 01:28:08.105 --> 01:28:10.639 and you'll get answers within your (mutters) 1900 01:28:10.639 --> 01:28:14.567 and have (mutters) 1901 01:28:14.567 --> 01:28:15.654 who are gender variant 1902 01:28:15.654 --> 01:28:17.256 and who have (mutters) 1903 01:28:17.256 --> 01:28:19.415 expressing their identity and hearing it, 1904 01:28:19.415 --> 01:28:23.095 and so I'd ask if you could talk about 1905 01:28:23.095 --> 01:28:24.558 in understanding that this is 1906 01:28:24.558 --> 01:28:28.377 a sociocultural and socially constructed phenomenon, 1907 01:28:28.377 --> 01:28:31.441 how do you in concrete steps in your practice 1908 01:28:31.441 --> 01:28:34.181 work towards humanizing the individuals 1909 01:28:34.181 --> 01:28:35.121 that you are working with, 1910 01:28:35.121 --> 01:28:38.233 and whatever way that they have to (mutters) 1911 01:28:38.233 --> 01:28:41.163 And so if there are some suggestions 1912 01:28:41.163 --> 01:28:44.936 for (mutters) and do you ask all of your clients 1913 01:28:44.936 --> 01:28:48.199 (mutters), you know, what pronoun 1914 01:28:48.199 --> 01:28:50.487 are you supposed to use? 1915 01:28:53.188 --> 01:28:54.433 - I do. 1916 01:28:55.525 --> 01:28:57.564 Maybe I shouldn't say that quite... 1917 01:28:59.151 --> 01:29:01.138 I try to listen for gender variance, 1918 01:29:01.138 --> 01:29:03.901 and then to react or respond to it. 1919 01:29:03.901 --> 01:29:06.339 I try to, I let people know that they have 1920 01:29:06.339 --> 01:29:08.660 to help me understand because I really don't 1921 01:29:08.660 --> 01:29:11.072 know who they are until we talk about it, 1922 01:29:11.072 --> 01:29:15.286 and try to co-construct an understanding. 1923 01:29:15.286 --> 01:29:16.794 Now with Caster Semenya, 1924 01:29:16.794 --> 01:29:19.012 the New York Times ran an article very early 1925 01:29:19.012 --> 01:29:21.288 where her people back home, 1926 01:29:21.288 --> 01:29:24.724 her family, her aunties, they all knew that she was a girl. 1927 01:29:24.724 --> 01:29:25.966 They also knew that she was a girl 1928 01:29:25.966 --> 01:29:27.406 who played with the boys. 1929 01:29:27.406 --> 01:29:29.008 They knew that, that was what they knew. 1930 01:29:29.008 --> 01:29:32.432 And there wasn't a problem from their perspective. 1931 01:29:32.432 --> 01:29:34.847 So in essence, what it really boils down to 1932 01:29:34.847 --> 01:29:37.970 is what are we really about having 1933 01:29:37.970 --> 01:29:40.512 testosterone people in one camp, 1934 01:29:40.512 --> 01:29:41.928 and are we gonna put people 1935 01:29:41.928 --> 01:29:45.144 in a camp based on their testosterone level? 1936 01:29:45.144 --> 01:29:47.771 I mean, it gets pretty, pretty crazy. 1937 01:29:48.747 --> 01:29:50.679 I already told you that my experience has been 1938 01:29:50.679 --> 01:29:54.777 that no one person that I've worked with is like any other. 1939 01:29:54.777 --> 01:29:56.576 And I put that out there. 1940 01:29:56.576 --> 01:29:57.792 And the choices they make 1941 01:29:57.792 --> 01:30:00.887 are not like any other either. 1942 01:30:00.887 --> 01:30:03.348 And what always seems to come up 1943 01:30:03.348 --> 01:30:04.833 in one way or another is the way 1944 01:30:04.833 --> 01:30:06.412 that they feel estranged from the culture 1945 01:30:06.412 --> 01:30:08.305 that they're a part of. 1946 01:30:08.305 --> 01:30:12.084 And can we find a way for them to feel connected? 1947 01:30:13.785 --> 01:30:15.835 You know, I put the fact that 1948 01:30:15.835 --> 01:30:20.082 I'm a white, or a Euro-American male psychiatrist out there, 1949 01:30:20.082 --> 01:30:23.262 because those are problematic signifiers as well. 1950 01:30:23.262 --> 01:30:26.420 Could I possibly understand the challenges 1951 01:30:26.420 --> 01:30:28.138 of folks who come to me with these issues 1952 01:30:28.138 --> 01:30:30.460 because of what I look like? 1953 01:30:30.460 --> 01:30:32.944 But I already alluded to the reality that you really 1954 01:30:32.944 --> 01:30:36.792 don't know what's underneath my pink shirt, you know? 1955 01:30:38.679 --> 01:30:41.094 So I think we have to face our own limitations 1956 01:30:41.094 --> 01:30:45.428 as people who are doing gender. 1957 01:30:45.428 --> 01:30:47.937 And we have to try to expand our minds. 1958 01:30:47.937 --> 01:30:49.701 And often frankly, to expand the minds 1959 01:30:49.701 --> 01:30:51.884 of our patients or our clients. 1960 01:30:51.884 --> 01:30:53.358 Because at least with the person 1961 01:30:53.358 --> 01:30:56.408 I just told you about who has made the transition 1962 01:30:56.408 --> 01:30:59.610 and is now discovering how much she hates herself, 1963 01:31:01.188 --> 01:31:04.008 that's the culture internalized. 1964 01:31:05.749 --> 01:31:07.136 So, you know, I'm not giving you 1965 01:31:07.136 --> 01:31:10.405 a very clear answer because I don't think I have one. 1966 01:31:10.405 --> 01:31:12.702 What I've learned from being willing frankly, 1967 01:31:12.702 --> 01:31:14.389 to see these folks and in my community 1968 01:31:14.389 --> 01:31:16.270 people refer these folks my direction 1969 01:31:16.270 --> 01:31:18.883 because they don't necessarily want to see them, 1970 01:31:18.883 --> 01:31:22.923 is to be open and to do my best to be open. 1971 01:31:22.923 --> 01:31:25.746 And occasionally I'm confronted with my own biases, 1972 01:31:25.746 --> 01:31:27.573 maybe explicitly by the person that I'm with, 1973 01:31:27.573 --> 01:31:29.423 and we have to work that out. 1974 01:31:29.423 --> 01:31:31.582 But having had psychoanalytic training 1975 01:31:31.582 --> 01:31:33.950 and being psychoanalyzed myself, 1976 01:31:33.950 --> 01:31:35.947 that's the nature of the work. 1977 01:31:35.947 --> 01:31:37.143 You create an alliance hopefully 1978 01:31:37.143 --> 01:31:39.650 in which you can sort these things out. 1979 01:31:39.650 --> 01:31:41.449 And certainly if I'm encountering somebody 1980 01:31:41.449 --> 01:31:45.281 whose sexuality, whose gender expression 1981 01:31:45.281 --> 01:31:46.928 is different from my own, 1982 01:31:46.928 --> 01:31:48.380 there are going to be many opportunities 1983 01:31:48.380 --> 01:31:50.829 for empathic failures that we're gonna have 1984 01:31:50.829 --> 01:31:52.930 to work on and try to sort out. 1985 01:31:53.875 --> 01:31:56.038 I don't know if that is a helpful answer, 1986 01:31:56.038 --> 01:31:59.764 or if I'm dodging some part of the question you were asking. 1987 01:32:01.637 --> 01:32:03.135 Is there more to it? 1988 01:32:04.220 --> 01:32:06.129 - [Voiceover] Well, I suppose that's what I'm asking. 1989 01:32:06.129 --> 01:32:08.270 That sort of is there more to, 1990 01:32:09.456 --> 01:32:11.955 yes there are the potential for empathic failures 1991 01:32:11.955 --> 01:32:14.985 and sort of the (mutters), 1992 01:32:14.985 --> 01:32:16.900 but also, you know, 1993 01:32:18.015 --> 01:32:21.053 what are your forms when it comes to assessment? 1994 01:32:21.053 --> 01:32:24.024 How do you balance, work to maybe-- 1995 01:32:24.024 --> 01:32:24.644 - Well. 1996 01:32:24.644 --> 01:32:25.764 - [Voiceover] Get to the place 1997 01:32:25.764 --> 01:32:29.583 that perhaps (mutters). 1998 01:32:29.583 --> 01:32:32.165 You might have a difference in your areas too and-- 1999 01:32:32.165 --> 01:32:34.568 - Well, and I work in an organization 2000 01:32:35.616 --> 01:32:38.637 with 2,000 physicians and 40,000 employees. 2001 01:32:38.637 --> 01:32:42.048 We did this year have an LGBTI, 2002 01:32:43.071 --> 01:32:45.775 I may be leaving out some signifiers, 2003 01:32:46.706 --> 01:32:49.456 task force to work on exactly those things. 2004 01:32:49.456 --> 01:32:51.511 So right now we're working on adjusting our forms. 2005 01:32:51.511 --> 01:32:53.635 We're working on changing our bathrooms. 2006 01:32:53.635 --> 01:32:55.516 We're working on identifying, 2007 01:32:55.516 --> 01:32:57.606 actually my belief, 2008 01:32:57.606 --> 01:32:59.834 you can take this any way you want, 2009 01:32:59.834 --> 01:33:01.588 but I believe that we need to identify people 2010 01:33:01.588 --> 01:33:03.375 who are willing to do this work. 2011 01:33:03.375 --> 01:33:05.790 Not assume that everyone will do this work. 2012 01:33:05.790 --> 01:33:07.892 Because there's nothing more offensive than having 2013 01:33:07.892 --> 01:33:11.734 someone who's trying to be cool working with you. 2014 01:33:11.734 --> 01:33:13.974 So what we're working to do 2015 01:33:13.974 --> 01:33:16.551 is identify a panel of providers 2016 01:33:16.551 --> 01:33:20.794 who are comfortable engaging in a clinical encounter 2017 01:33:20.794 --> 01:33:23.973 with a person who identifies as gender variant. 2018 01:33:23.973 --> 01:33:27.241 And then at least setting it up so that 2019 01:33:28.211 --> 01:33:30.253 the providers are interested in seeing the patients, 2020 01:33:30.253 --> 01:33:32.458 and the patients feel that at least the provider 2021 01:33:32.458 --> 01:33:35.117 wants to see them, does that make sense? 2022 01:33:35.117 --> 01:33:38.774 I'll tell you an anecdote which absolutely enraged me. 2023 01:33:38.774 --> 01:33:41.017 I had a patient who wanted to start, 2024 01:33:42.176 --> 01:33:43.252 let me get this right, 2025 01:33:43.252 --> 01:33:46.316 a male to female transgendered person 2026 01:33:46.316 --> 01:33:50.531 who wanted to start estrogens, female hormones. 2027 01:33:50.531 --> 01:33:53.026 I called up the endocrinologist on call 2028 01:33:53.026 --> 01:33:54.431 and I said, "What should I do?" 2029 01:33:54.431 --> 01:33:55.290 And he said, "Oh, it's really simple. 2030 01:33:55.290 --> 01:33:56.172 "It's really, really easy." 2031 01:33:56.172 --> 01:33:57.589 What you do is you do this and you do that, 2032 01:33:57.589 --> 01:33:59.086 and then you order this test and you do that, 2033 01:33:59.086 --> 01:34:00.816 and anybody can do it. 2034 01:34:00.816 --> 01:34:04.345 And I said, "Well, how about I send this person to see you?" 2035 01:34:04.345 --> 01:34:05.669 And they said, "Oh, no, no, no. 2036 01:34:05.669 --> 01:34:07.990 "I'm not a specialist in that." 2037 01:34:07.990 --> 01:34:09.926 Literally, literally. 2038 01:34:10.730 --> 01:34:14.254 Now I wanted to, I don't know what I wanted. 2039 01:34:14.254 --> 01:34:17.295 I wanted to do something to his gender. 2040 01:34:17.295 --> 01:34:19.281 But anyway. (audience laughs) 2041 01:34:20.741 --> 01:34:24.749 That's an example of the kind of challenge that we face. 2042 01:34:24.749 --> 01:34:27.051 Luckily another member of his department, 2043 01:34:28.005 --> 01:34:31.700 another endocrinologist is being funded by that department 2044 01:34:31.700 --> 01:34:33.920 to go get training in centers 2045 01:34:33.920 --> 01:34:36.219 where people are doing this work. 2046 01:34:38.079 --> 01:34:39.727 So that we will have someone identified 2047 01:34:39.727 --> 01:34:40.772 who wants to work with folks 2048 01:34:40.772 --> 01:34:42.779 and who knows something about what they're doing. 2049 01:34:43.934 --> 01:34:44.700 'Cause there are two parts. 2050 01:34:44.700 --> 01:34:46.186 It's one to be open to it, 2051 01:34:46.186 --> 01:34:48.426 but there's another to actually know what you're doing. 2052 01:34:48.426 --> 01:34:49.587 And those two things are not necessarily 2053 01:34:49.587 --> 01:34:51.886 the same things either, right? 2054 01:34:51.886 --> 01:34:52.664 There are a lot of well-meaning people 2055 01:34:52.664 --> 01:34:55.204 who do terrible things to their clients and patients. 2056 01:34:56.379 --> 01:34:58.054 And there's part of that story here too I think 2057 01:34:58.054 --> 01:35:00.596 when we hear about this pastor. 2058 01:35:00.596 --> 01:35:01.722 Who really doesn't have a very good answer 2059 01:35:01.722 --> 01:35:05.292 for this member of his flock. 2060 01:35:06.299 --> 01:35:09.353 So to make a short, the summary is this, 2061 01:35:09.353 --> 01:35:11.153 we have a committee, we're trying to change the way 2062 01:35:11.153 --> 01:35:14.600 that we offer access to people with gender variance. 2063 01:35:14.600 --> 01:35:17.793 And are hoping to identify a panel of providers. 2064 01:35:17.793 --> 01:35:19.732 I already have an underground panel. 2065 01:35:19.732 --> 01:35:22.210 I know who they are, they know who I am. 2066 01:35:22.210 --> 01:35:24.220 But to make it explicit so that there is, 2067 01:35:24.220 --> 01:35:26.077 when someone calls on the phone for a clinic 2068 01:35:26.077 --> 01:35:27.737 at this institution they will be directed 2069 01:35:27.737 --> 01:35:29.315 to people who want to work with them. 2070 01:35:30.210 --> 01:35:31.579 What happens then is when you refer them 2071 01:35:31.579 --> 01:35:33.238 to a sub-specialist as invariably 2072 01:35:33.238 --> 01:35:35.461 at a place like Mayo Clinic you will, 2073 01:35:35.461 --> 01:35:38.537 they have the advocacy of the person making the referral. 2074 01:35:38.537 --> 01:35:40.544 Because a heart's a heart, you know? 2075 01:35:41.419 --> 01:35:42.852 So that's kind of where it is. 2076 01:35:42.852 --> 01:35:44.477 It's a work in progress at our place. 2077 01:35:44.477 --> 01:35:46.068 We just had this committee in the last year. 2078 01:35:46.068 --> 01:35:48.656 Just got the endorsement of our clinical practice committee 2079 01:35:48.656 --> 01:35:50.027 to come up with a better model 2080 01:35:50.027 --> 01:35:52.010 within the past six months. 2081 01:35:53.811 --> 01:35:54.442 - [Voiceover] Thank you. 2082 01:35:54.442 --> 01:35:55.225 - Thanks. 2083 01:35:55.225 --> 01:35:55.549 - [Voiceover] Thank you. 2084 01:35:55.549 --> 01:35:56.772 - Okay, thank you. 2085 01:35:56.772 --> 01:36:01.772 (applause)